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Oftentimes we’ll just put the TV on in the evening for background noise while we clean up the dishes and move on to other tasks. (We rarely block out the time to sit and watch one of the many “streamed” shows the are in the “must watch” list.)
So, we have one of the formulaic network shows in the background.
And now it’s baseball season and there is nothing better than a baseball game on in the background. Much more exciting than the network shows.
When something really exciting happens, you hear the roar of the crowd emphasized by the announcers. And, in case you missed it, you get to see the cause of all the commotion in the instant replays.

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Daniel Schwartz

You took my topic I was working on for a blog, lol. Yes supper was at 6pm when dad got home.
Robert Intelisano

This reminds me of 'the good old days" when we had family dinner at 6p during the week and Sunday lunch at 2pm at grandma Anna's house. My parents would ask us what we learned in school that day.
Nancy Schess

My dad was a school principal. His day started early and end early so when he came home at 4 pm he was hungry. Dinner in our house was at 4:30. Like you, I didn't realize that was early until college.
Daniel Schwartz

Listening is number one. Feeling your audience and looking for common ground for report building. Getting to know pain points helps as does their overall needs.. Once established, the close is more natural.
David Abeshouse

Education -- provide information that enlightens the prospect, if they're not fully familiar with the advantages you offer. (Of course, first you have to offer some advantages over other alternatives....)
Fred Klein

Making them feel you are one of a kind/special and that you can deliver!
Bruce Swicker

Agreed with Dan, that listening - actively listening - is key. Folks want to know that they are being listened to. In addition, I always tried to use humor to break down barriers. One of my favorite lines when someone first contacts me through a referral from someone else, and I would always acknowledge the referral with something like, "Oh, so Nancy Schess suggested that you call me, and despite Nancy's recommendation, you called me anyway." 3, 2, 1 . . . . chuckle. It may not seem like much, but if you can get someone to smile or even laugh a little bit, you have begun to break down barriers and start a meaningful conversation.
Scott Bloom

Absolutely is about helping Them. Solving their problems. Saving them money.

Then, the ones that Know you were great for Them….they refer you to others.
Robert Intelisano

Asking the right questions (regarding objectives and are existing policies properly covering said objectives) , listening and teaching my clients how "The Insurance Company Makes Money" has set me apart from the rest over the years. I can often see the "glazed over eyes clear" during the discussion because, if you (the client) understands how the insurance carriers makes money, decisions become much more clear. Also, put yourselves in their position and recommend what you would do if you were them.
Daniel Schwartz

The problem is, we have gotten so exreme with sides that it has become dangerous to take a side. That in itself is a reason for such zones. I am all for freedom of speech, but we need to express ourselves with some control and not worry about retaliation later on.
Shelley Simpson

The zones have existed ever since I can remember and we have now come to the point you describe. There are people with whom it is impossible to have a conversation because they don’t want to converse, they want to convince. I want to understand and be heard. That’s all. I don’t care if we agree but I do want you to feel understood and heard. That can only happen through conversation.
Fred Klein

WTF is an abbreviation for Wonderful Terrific Fred :)
Robert Intelisano

DYK (did you know) IMHO (in my humble opinion) this is an excellent post topic. It addresses FOMO (aka fear of missing out) and FOTU (aka fear of the unknown) Bravo Ben!!
Ray Walcott

Maybe it’s the bittersweet nature of leaving behind memories that stirs that melancholy.
Paul Napolitano

We always say “why” when we leave Saratoga and Texas. For us, it’s leaving the places that we would rather be.
Shelley Simpson

Does it matter? Maybe it’s an indication that you are happy where you're at. That’s a good thing. But at the end of the day, being able to experience a full range of emotions is what gives life texture. Lean into it and see what it turns into as you move to the next page in your journal.
Daniel Schwartz

I totally can understand it. You are leaving your "paradise". You are lucky to have the ability to live in two great places as you desire.

Submitted by Judy_Mauer on Thu, 04/24/2025 - 21:25

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Judy Mauer

You have 2 beautiful lives. It’s always hard to leave a place that gives you so much happiness. But when you get home there are all the joys of family, culture , gotham -and your northern friends -
Robert Intelisano

mama I'm coming home! Looking forward to seeing you soon!!
Victoria Drogin

I understand this. Strong connections to beauty and family and friends in different places. Surf the feelings, find the joy…. See you soon xo
David Abeshouse

It's great to have two places that you're sad to leave (even when you're going to the other one). The wistfulness is temporary, after you transition to the "new" locale. There are advantages to each, but the biggest advantage is that you have both.
Crysti Farra

H9me is where your heart is ..for that reason I will be a lifelong nomad!

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