Submitted by Fred on

Mile Marker

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On Wednesday I passed another mile marker (see photo taken by Rodger Davis). 

They say "It's just a number" and "You look good".  You Look Good!Well, the number is a very heavy mental weight which hangs over me and is never far from my thoughts.  I just can't really believe it.  Nor can I believe Joanne and I will be married 50 years in July. 

I work very hard to keep my body and mind functioning at a high level.  I exercise every day, get 8 hours sleep, take walks with our dog Charcoal, eat well, take vitamins (including Shelley Simpson's Juice Plus), keep a diary, play Lexulous and generally pay a price that most would not be willing to do.  

My generation is so venerable that it precedes the Baby Boomers by 2 years.  Can you believe that? Knowing me how could I be from the Silent Generation?  What a joke!

I see people looking at me (gray and shrinking) as if they are thinking I should act my age, but in my mind I am in my prime and 42.  How dare they!  I've got a lot going on in an active life and a lot more to do and territory to cover. So make way.  

As far as looking good (thanks mom for your genes), I go by the adage that there are three stages in life: Youth, Middle Age and "You Look Good"!

When it is all said and done I am usually the oldest person in the room (unless Spizz is there) and it is what it is and considering the alternative, today is the last day of my "Youth".  So let's celebrate!

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Paul Napolitano

It's better to look good than feel good! Happy birthday Fred!

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=J0RTD7250II

Submitted by Judy_Mauer on Thu, 03/31/2016 - 22:05

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Judy Mauer

It's a number that records how many years you have been on the planet. It's your SPIRIT AGE that counts ! And you will be "forever young" (thank you Bob Dylan)

Submitted by Fred on Thu, 03/31/2016 - 22:30

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Fred Klein

Love Forever Young (Rod's version too)!
Norman Spizz

If you think that it is the last day of your youth then tomorrow you will be old. I think I'm still young

Submitted by MarilynGenoa on Thu, 03/31/2016 - 23:30

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Marilyn Genoa

Happy Birthday! I love celebrating my birthday and I hope you are enjoying your very special day. I stopped counting many years ago. If I actually stopped and thought about the number it might scare me. I agree Fred I am perpetually the age I feel. Given that it is Friday, enjoy your birthday weekend and celebrate.
ODEY RAVIV

Only a Number. Your attitude and zest will keep you fresh!
There will be many more years of FUN ahead. Keep Plankin'
Flo Feinberg

Fred, you (and Joanne) are true role models for us....mere mortals!
Happy, happy birthday dear friend; perhaps there should be new nomenclature for "The Silent Generation"!

Submitted by Michael__Appell on Fri, 04/01/2016 - 00:39

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Michael Appell

Happy Birthday. I wish you many more!
Ellyn Finkelstein

Happy Birthday! You look simply marvelous! Sure you don't have the fountain of youth hidden in your home in Key West???? Shhhh, I won't tell!
Cayce Crown

Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age. Anais Nin

Clearly the case here.

Submitted by NeilHollander on Sat, 04/02/2016 - 06:52

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Neil Hollander

Mile Marker 74 in pink! When the engine is running smoothly the mile markers pile up and go by mostly leaving fond memories as they countdown the road of life! If you develop engine trouble along the way the stakes change . The trick is to repair the engine on the run and put out the check engine light any way you can ! Then you can reach any new mile marker with renewed importance and appreciation. My future mile markers will be observed with eyes wide open and no regrets . Happy to be here to reach these goals . Congrats to you my friend for so many mile markers behind you and so many to go . It IS better to give than receive ! How did I get so lucky ?

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