Submitted by Rona_Gura on

It's A Matter of Perspective

It's A Matter of Perspective
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A few weeks ago I made an appointment for my ENT for a hearing test.  Going into the test, I knew what the results would be. I was going to need hearing aids. And I was right.  I am getting fitted for hearing aids in a few weeks.

 

I walked out of the doctor’s office feeling sorry for myself. I felt it was a sign that I was getting old, people would see them etc. In the midst of my misery, I ran into, in the medical office building lobby, a matrimonial attorney with whom I have had several cases. He looked unusually happy for someone who was walking into a medical building.  I asked him how he was, and this was his response:

 

Rona, I am going to see my cardiologist and I don’t care what he tells me. Eight months ago, we were told that my twenty-seven-year-old son had cancer and his prognosis was grim. After eight months of surgeries and treatments yesterday we were told that he was cancer free. So, it doesn’t matter what my cardiologist tells me, it cannot be worse than the past eight months. My son is healthy, and I am thankful.

 

I hugged him and congratulated him. As I walked away, I realized that my mood had tremendously lifted, and I was no longer sad. If a twenty-eight-year-old could battle and beat cancer I could deal with hearing aids. His journey definitely put my upcoming journey with hearing aids into perspective.

 

Comments

Daniel Schwartz

Perspective will always be the dominating contributer to how you feel. Embrace what you have and enjoy life. Be thankful technogy is there to improve your hearing. Imagine if it wasn't available and the world around you was much quieter.
Shelley Simpson

Each of us has our battles and there is nothing wrong with feeling sorry for ourselves while also feeling grateful, hopeful and empathetic. We humans can hold more than one emotion.
As for the hearing aid, living with someone who has profound hearing impairment, I can tell you that the hearing aids will improve your quality of life and that of the people around you. The isolation that comes from hearing loss is not something any of us should have to endure.
Brian Timpe

Wow what a way to start off a Monday with this perspective that is motivating to accept what we have and to continue to appreciate our life!
Geraldine Newman

In French, there are 2 words for "know". One means know as in understand, the other means know as in able to. The French saying is "if the young could understand, and if the older were able to....." - a similar sentiment.

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