Fred, your blog brought me to tears. For those that truly provide more benefit for others w/o recognition...is a mantra that I know both Paul and I share.
However, after speaking to Victoria yesterday, I've changed my mindset.
Paul-- live it, own it...well deserved. Some, like Fred and Victoria know better.
CONGRATULATIONS!

I would like to meet such a guy.

Paul's reaction was the best part.

Fred, Victoria and Cindy say they disagree, but these are three people that routinely do LIFE CHANGING good deeds for others, yet NEVER look for recognition or accolades.

Fred and Victoria know one of my favorite quotes that hangs above my desk:

“I believe the good you do for others comes back to you. But if you do something good for some person and more than two people know about it –you and the other person- then you didn't do it for the right reason.” George Steinbrenner on Charity

Like “The Boss”, I have plenty of warts, but you keep trying.

Thanks so much Fred. :)

Paul is one of the most generous, giving people I have ever met. (One of only a few reasons why I adore him and consider myself the luckiest woman in the world.) :) .... He is also one of the most adamant people I’ve ever met about not receiving recognition for his good deeds.

For years, we have debated this issue of recognition. He always quotes George Steinbrenner, who says that if more than two people know about the good deed – you and the person receiving it – then you did it for the wrong reason. I always vehemently disagree. Charity and acts of kindness are caught not taught. When we see or hear of those who do good in the world, it inspires us and motivates us to be better people. I drove around the South shore after Sandy last year with Paul. He was making rounds to help people we knew…and just as often stopped to help those families, many with little children, on the street whom we had never met. He has made donations for years – all under the cloak of secrecy – to veterans foundations, homeless shelters, you name it….. And I “out” him every chance I get. He inspires me every day to be a better person. He leads by example and teaches our children to live lives where they are grateful for our many, many blessings and where they help others whenever the opportunity arises.

He will hate this post and squirm under the spotlight. But I don’t care. :) Our debate will continue for years, I’m sure.... He will continue to try to avoid recognition, and I will continue to tell the world about his kindness, selfless ness and quiet generosity. And so, I offer up two additional Steinbrenner quotes that I believe describe Paul far more accurately: One is: “If I can help, I wanna help.” And the other is: “The ability to have is so you can do things for others.” So proud of you, honey. Love you very much.

(and I swear I didn't see Paul's post before I posted mine!) lol...

As one of those Sandy victims whom Paul rescued, I was thrilled to hear of the honor bestowed upon him. I will never forget the image of Paul-with Victoria at his side-in my house the day after the storm. Not only did he arrive with a work crew but he brought us food and water. In what can only be described as a black moment for my family, Paul brought us so much light. And, in true Paul manner, he refused to allow me to give him public recognition for all he did for us. I will never forget what he did for my family and am so grateful that Gotham has publicly recognized Paul for all he is.

On Tuesday night, I was honored to be in such august company with Paul.

From JASON GREENBERG: Paul embodies the spirit of Gotham & giving. I've known Paul for almost 15 years & I look to him for advice (business & personal) & I look up to him as a big brother. I also have to to say that his two boys, Justin & Derek are definitely following in Paul's footsteps as "good souls." It was great to see the both of them there to surprise & celebrate a most deserving award & to see Paul emotionally embrace that with, albeit a small tear (he's not an emotional guy) ;), a tear in his eye.

Looking forward to many more great times. Congrats!!!!

Congratulations, Paul!! What a wonderful & well-deserved tribute!! I'll always remember your expert professional help at my co-op and apartment when we needed the best, and how caring you were in following up. You were our Hero, and we were all so impressed. I'm glad you received this special recognition for all that you do!

Paul gets it right. Do good for the sake of doing good; not for the acclaim.

Congratulations Paul! We're lucky to have you as part of our tribe.