Submitted by MitchTobol on

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Tooling along in the right lane, south on rte 135, last week at about 60 mph (cruise control), listening to a book, heat seater and steering wheel heater on, and I'm enjoying the moment.

 

A blue Subaru mini SUV pulls up to my left in the middle lane and slows down. They position themselves just off my left front bumper. Then, without notice, they move into my lane. I step on my brakes while simultaeously downshifting to avoid an accident. The Subaru, seemingly unfazed, continued driving and got off at the next exit a half mile later.

 

I contemplated many things; pulling up next to them and giving them an angry glare, moving ahead of them and cutting them off like they did to me, taligating them and honk incessantly or maybe even flash my headlights. I did none of those things as I watched them get off the highway.

 

When my anger subsided I felt sad for them. It became obvious to me that they are not a considerate person. They probably don't hold the door for anyone or even consider other people's feelings even when interacting with their important relationships. I would guess they're unhappy, unfulfilled and will never reach true enlightenment.

 

Use turn signals

If only they had the consideration to use their blinker to indicate what they are doing. But of course they don't because they know where they're going...

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Cayce Crown

Or maybe they had an emergency, tragedy, or sadness that was distracting them. Everyone makes mistakes.
Rona Gura

I just finished an online defensive driving class. You did exactly the right thing. Most people would not have and there would have been tragic results.
Dana Charlton

Grrr, that has happened to me as well, so I empathize with you. Of course the driver should have slowed down and gone in behind you rather than cut you off. He was lucky that you were on the ball and had more consideration then he.

Submitted by NeilHollander on Sat, 03/24/2018 - 14:45

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Neil Hollander

Tell me about your pulse and blood pressure while this was going on ? Was it stable or would you have been better off acting on your rage ? Fantasy ..... I've shot more ass holes dead than I care to admit on the highways . Or.... You could roll down the window after they left the highway and screamed to no one in particular . If I keep my road range buttoned up I tend to get a sweaty upper lip . You did the right thing but how did it feel ? Like Corey said : They'll get theirs . Karma Brother . But mean time : How do you feel about yourself ? Did I over think it enough for you ?

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Geraldine Newman

There is a common disease I see spreading. Self-itis. Complete absorption in one's own agenda. So, worse than no consideration, is no reality of anyone else. I had a great idea for an invention: a dart gun that would shoot out furled banners that would unfurl when they hit their mark, stick to it and read "asshole", or if you prefer more genteel language "egomaniac", or "fool", or ..... What do you think? Would you buy one?
Mitch Tobol

My pulse increase but not so much blood pressure. When my brain understood what was going on my anger subsided and became sadness and even pity for that person. I feel good about myself and happy I still have cat like reflexes :-)

Submitted by MarilynGenoa on Sun, 03/25/2018 - 00:04

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Marilyn Genoa

Changing lanes without signaling is a violation which will add points to your license for that reason, it can lead to tragic results. Given that you were driving in the right lane (which is the merge on/off lane) and despite your description of "enjoying the moment" you maintained your vigilance as a defensive driver which is the reason that an accident (or worse) did not occur. Being in an enclosed vehicle when things like that happen I find a great place to Vent--no one can hear me, but allows me to bring myself back to a state of "nirvana" in my own private setting. Interesting word "Self-itis", and unfortunately there are many who appear to suffer from it, however yesterday (Saturday March 24), the hundreds of thousands of people who came out as one to march (not just across our country but literally across the world) was an amazing example of just the opposite of "self-itis" and the way the youth of america expressed their understanding of the reality of others whose only similarity was the impact of senseless gun violence, and who allowed the reality of all of those impacted to be expressed and heard was inspiring. It gives one hope.

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