Flying Lufthansa

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By the time this blog is posted and being read, we will, hopefully, be safe and sound in Prague. We are flying Lufthansa, the German airline.
For many years as I grew up, Germany -- and it’s products -- were persona non grata for my family and generally prohibited. As a child, I learned to be sensitive to a product’s country of origin, and “Made in Germany” was a non-starter.
My father (who, as most know was a holocaust survivor) was a printer and had a small printing business in New York City. When I was in High School, I worked at “The Printing” after school.
My Father had purchased new printing equipment and decided to purchase Miehle printing presses, manufactured in Germany. When the presses were delivered and being installed, Miehle sent a crew of engineers to assemble them. One day, I saw my father speaking to one of the engineers -- a young man in his thirties. They were speaking in German, a language which was particularly hard on my ears.
As they spoke, my thoughts raced. The prohibition on German products. The harsh language. The holocaust.
While driving home with my father, I asked him how he was comfortable with the German equipment and the young engineers now welcome in his business. "His father was probably a Nazi and could have been on the other side of a rifle pointed at you and my grandfather,” I probed.
“That may have been his father, but it wasn’t the young man,” answered my father. That was it and that was enough.
From that day on, I began to let go. My parents -- my father until his death and my mother to this day -- taught to not hold the next generation responsible for the sins of their parents.

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Fred Klein

Your father (and mother) brought up a fine young (and now not so young) man by setting great examples.
Rona Gura

Beautiful blog Ben. Although not Holocaust survivors, my parents had the same prohibition against buying German in my household while I was growing up. Last year we helped my daughter buy her first car. All she wanted was a Jetta. As we signed the papers with her, I had this uneasy feeling that my father was looking down on us disapprovingly. After reading your blog, I am going to let go of that.

Submitted by Vincent_Serro on Thu, 05/23/2013 - 01:30

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Vincent Serro

I find it ironic that BWM for example manufactures more vehicles in places like Spartanberg, SC and Tiexi, China than it manufatures in Germany now. The world has moved on quite a bit since the 1940's. I commend both of your parents for having the wisdom in their later years to forgive the new generations after what they experienced. I'm not so sure if I had lived through what they did if I could be as forgiving.
Susan Zinder

It's a good lesson, and true, but I hope that I don't offend anyone when I say I have a real problem hearing people speak German near me. I know it shouldn't but it just makes me uncomfortable, and thankfully my family was safe in this great country during the Holocaust. I do, however, also have a Miele stove and dishwasher and I lust after a Volkswagon - ok, I"m inconsistent in this one but there it is. Enjoy Prague!

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Thu, 05/23/2013 - 02:24

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What a nice story

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Thu, 05/23/2013 - 02:24

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What a nice story

Submitted by Linda_Newman on Thu, 05/23/2013 - 02:39

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Linda Newman

My husband's family are Holocaust survivors who only lived because the War ended. My father-in-law was in a forced labor camp, my mother-in-law lost two brothers. When the family planned to leave in the 1970"s, they were offered German citizenship because my mother-in-law was Austrian. They decided to come to NYC as it was my father-in-law's dream. I cannot imagine what they went through. I agree with Ben's father. My husband loves German music.
Corey Bearak

I try not to apply characterizations across the board. Ben's blog outlines why.

Submitted by Lucas_Meyer on Thu, 05/23/2013 - 04:36

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Lucas Meyer

While my parents were still married, we spoke German at home (my father was something less than half Jewish), and Mother's family had been living in the United States for many generations in the 1940s. And we had very good friends and neighbors who were German and German-American, with whom we spent Christmas Eve every year. So I wasn't raised with a particular anti-German bias.

My wife's families, however, fled Holland after the German invasion in 1940. She was Dutch and his family had decamped to Amsterdam in the 1920s from Germany. The stories of their escapes are riveting; her mother's family were spirited out of Holland and to Argentina by the Freemasons. And her father's father had been a highly decorated intelligence officer for the Kaiser in the First World War and had the connections and money to get the family out. While my mother-in-law speaks fluent German, she'd NEVER have German products in the house, and when I picked her up at the airport in my aunt's Mercedes, she told me she'd take a cab.

My wife has mellowed on the subject, and one thing that helped her along with that was meeting some lovely neighbors of ours, the Wengers. He's from Heidelberg (which my wife's father and my father's family came from) and absolutely charming. His wife is German-Jewish.

There is still one prohibition in our house: No German cars. That's not hard for me to do, because I would never spend that much money on a car. Japanese-- all the way!
Riva Schwartz

In the 1980's. as a business executive, I was asked to take a young German man around Europe. He told me how uncomfortable he felt being German , traveling through Europe. so I made him feel more comfortable. He was a nice young man, but I did wonder what his father 's part was in WW II...

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