Submitted by Raj_Goel on

I lost a friend yesterday…

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I met David in 2005, at a Commerce Group meeting.  We hit it off immediately, passing notes on our phones, making bad jokes, until Fred had to school us.  From that first meeting onwards, he adopted me as his mentee, invited me to various events, Gotham Queens, the Havana Club, etc.  He also introduced me to Steve Lichtenstein – someone I was terrified of approaching, because I was in awe of him.

David broke the ice and stayed by my side until I could say hello to Steve. 

 Over the years, he mentored me in how to be a father to a special needs child, how to navigate the NYC Board of Ed District 75 process, taught me WHY I should become a Friar, and never missed an opportunity to make me laugh.

 

I never had a meeting with David, in public, where he didn’t see me and yell loudly, YOU’RE THE FATTEST VEGETARIAN I KNOW.

 

If you’re a veteran Gotham member, be a David Stein.  Someone warm, funny, and incredibly generous.

If you’re new to Gotham, don’t be afraid to ask a veteran for help or mentoring.

 

I’ve loved David for 17 years, I have matured under his tutelage.  My life, my family’s life, and lives of countless individuals is better because we knew David – and he loved us.

David has been the secret to my success in Gotham, as a husband, a father & Friar.

 

BE A DAVID STEIN.

 

 

Comments

Fred Klein

A wonderful, heartfelt blog which inspired a most memorable testimonial last night at Happy Hour! Rest in peace David!!!
Scott Bloom

Chills. Thanks, Raj. Funny enough, while ‘attending’ David’s funeral yesterday…my final parting words to him were that I would ‘tell bad jokes in his honor’
Dana Charlton

Though I didn’t know David personally, your wonderful tribute to him makes me wish I did. May he rest in peace.
ODEY RAVIV

Raj words made David’s life real to me. I regret not knowing him. Condolences to his family and friends.
Susan Schoenberg

What beautiful sentiments Raj. I am so sorry for your loss and the loss for David's family and friends. I regrettably never knew David, who obviously was a wonderful human being and a real mensch. May he rest in peace and may his memory be a blessing.

Submitted by Steven_Lichtenstein on Sat, 05/07/2022 - 00:56

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Steven Lichtenstein

Raj that was a wonderful tribute to a great man. David’s generosity and ability to make connections will endure as will the wonderful life-long friendships that were created in Gotham Queens. I will miss his smirk and his quick wit as he exemplified what being a mensch is. He was always the first person I would seek out as I couldn’t wait to hear his first one liner which was always off-color, inappropriate and sneakingly funny. He will be missed and his legacy will endure. As he always stated, “networking is a contact sport” and there was no one better at making connections and attracting guests to our tribal community.
Raj Goel

Several mourners made a point of calling David "you fat bastard" during the eulogies.

We know he would be laughing his ass off at all of us saying nice things about him.
Raj Goel

A classic David Stein zinger to anyone drinking at the bar

"Hey, go easy on that stuff. Leave some for the real alcoholics!"
Raj Goel

Heres an example of David's generosity:

When our older daughter was diagnosed with epilepsy and the NYC Board Of Education wasn't providing her proper services, David came to.our house several times and spent hours teaching Sharon how to organize the IEP, Special Needs forms, medical records, etc so that the Board Of Education could provide required services

He didn't have to do that.

But he did. He took hours out of his life to help us in a very stressful situation where we were feeling helpless and overwhelmed.
Paula Oleska

Such a beautiful testimonial! I didn't know David, but you were fortunate you did. My condolences.
Jane Beddall

I didn't know him personally -- but now know the best about him. Thanks, Raj.
Louis Cappelli

I didn't know the gentleman but I can see it was my loss,.not knowing him.
Daniel Schwartz

As Raj stated, David was an incredibly generous person with a huge heart and knack to lighten up a room.
I first met David almost twenty years ago at Gotham Queens. He taught me what networking was all about. He always knew the right people and if you needed an introduction, he made it happen.
He also was a great client that got my career moving up with Carr Xerox. His printing house, which at the time did all of the NYC water bills, was my largest account and helped me hit many goals through my early years.
He always had something witty to say, often times inappropriate, but always to get a reaction. He had the ability to light up a room at any moment. When he showed up my house for my mom's Shiva, the first thing out of his mouth was "Did you get a lolly pop with that haircut?" Only David, one of a kind. A friend, mentor, and great guy. I will dearly miss him.
Raj Goel

Steve,

You & David were/are my Northdtars for networking, being human and the life of the party.

I'm glad that the 2 guys who I fell in love with immediately are the best of Gotham.

For those of you who didn't know David - Steve is another such gem, and he's still alive. Get to know him!

Steve will never need as funny or foul-mouthed as David.

But Steve is equally, if not more generous with his time & his heart.

It's a privilege to know him
RitaSue Siegel

I could not agree more with Fred's response. I haven't yet found the words to describe the relationships between people that being in Gotham enables. For me, they have been especially visible at Happy Hour.

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