To Dog or Not to Dog

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When I was growing up we had a dog, a little chocolate brown poodle named “Coco”. The dog was really my sister’s. Truth is, I didn’t really like him. He just wasn’t all that nice. He growled a lot and wouldn’t hesitate to take a bite every so often.


Maybe Coco developed a complex because we gave him away when he was young. Here’s how that story went. Coco was pretty nasty and my sister and I apparently weren’t really taking care of him. Our gardener always liked Coco and so my parents decided he would have a better home there. My parents also made the gardener promise that if he was ever going to give Coco away, he would call us first. Clearly, my parents were fortune tellers. Years later the gardener passed away. His wife called and Coco returned. Oddly, the moment he was back in the house he headed straight to his favorite spot by the kitchen table.


Coco was like a cat. He had nine lives. One day, he ran out of the house (which he did with some frequency.) I grew up on a busy street in Brooklyn. The Command Bus ran up and down my street. Coco stopped a bus and lived to tell about it. A few years later, we were traveling back from Florida by car. It was New Year’s Eve and we stopped at hotel in Virginia. This time, Coco jumped out of the car and got caught in a closing door. We proceeded to wake the local veterinarian from a sound sleep. He told us the best place for him was New York’s Animal Medical Center so we drove through the night. After about a week in the hospital, Coco came home.


When my sister got married, they were a package deal. My brother-in-law married both of them. But, Coco didn’t like my brother-in-law all that much. He would perch at the edge of the bed every night barking and growling.


Now, how am I ending this blog? This might just surprise you. Even after my experience growing up, I really like dogs. They are all over my family and I enjoy spending time around them. My son has wanted a dog for a very long time.


What are your thoughts on pets? (We know how Fred will answer this question!) Did you have one growing up? Do you have one now? Should I give in to my son and buy him a dog sometime before he leaves for college?

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Submitted by DebbieLindner on Mon, 01/19/2015 - 21:05

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Debbie Lindner

Dog! A rescue dog
Cynthia Somma

Dog! As Debbie said a rescue dog! You won't be sorry, if you understand that you and Bill will always be the primary caretaker--by default. The love that your kids will show and vice a versa is priceless.
They add more work to any household...what they give back in return cannot be measured.
I have two---and contemplated a third until I realized that unlike kids, they don't leave!
Rona Gura

I love my dog but just remember, no matter what Eric says, you will be the one taking care of the dog.

Submitted by Josh_Kardisch on Tue, 01/20/2015 - 00:31

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Josh Kardisch

A dog is a must-have. Trust me, no one else will run to you, totally naked, and hump your leg!

Submitted by Liz_Saldana on Tue, 01/20/2015 - 00:33

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Liz Saldana

I always had pets growing up. My last pet, as an adult, was a cat. For years I've toyed with the idea of getting a dog (under 15 lbs to fit the weight limit in my building). For years, I tried to get my husband to agree; and a few years ago he did. He finally relented and said we could get a dog. That's when reality set in. Jerry would not be able to help walk the dog, take it to the vet, etc. The responsibility would be mine. Taking an honest look at my life, I realize I simply don't have the time for yet another responsibility. So, for now, my dream of having a pet is on hold...probably until retirement. If you have the time to take care of a pet, get one! I would, if I could.
Dana Charlton

My family had a dog growing up and once I left our house I have had a dog ever since; can't be without a dog for many reasons. But please don't buy a dog...please go to a shelter and select a dog - you and Eric will have an opportunity to commune in a "meeting" room and if that's the dog for you, you'll know it, or do it again with another dog. Know the breed/s you want before you adopt - they all have different attributes. Get a dog for Eric before he leaves for college? The dog will be yours and Bill's, then, not Eric's. Be prepared for a lot of loving.

Submitted by Lucas_Meyer on Tue, 01/20/2015 - 00:38

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Lucas Meyer

We never had a dog. But we did have a cat who thought he was a dog! He came when called (most of the time), "shook hands", didn't keep himself clean. And he weighed something like twenty pounds (all muscle). Lived nearly fourteen years. And the only person he ever scratched was my uncle, who hates cats.

I like dogs. I really do. But they aren't low maintenance. And you know, in your heart of hearts, that you're going to be the one walking it in frigid weather. In the rain. Up hill both ways.
Tessa Marquis

My motto is "No Kids, No Pets, No Plants". It is hard enough to keep myself alive...

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Tue, 01/20/2015 - 00:50

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If your son agrees to care for the dog before he leaves and take the dog to college with him, get him a dog. I have had many dogs and loved them dearly but they do take a lot of time and walking them late at night in the wind, rain or snow was never something I looked forward to. If the dog and your son do bond, the dog will be miserable when he leaves for school.
Amparo Connors

Definitely get a rescue dog for they add so much to your family! But be prepared for the work & heartache (and large Vet bills)... our own 14.5 yr old rescue is not long for this earth. We're now debating if we should get another dog; she's been sooooo good, fun, smart, loyal (lab Mix from North Shore). Can't imagine another dog as good as our Amber. If we do get a new dog our daughter (25, lives at home) knows she must care for it since we like to travel. If you do get a dog, & have a fenced back yard, suggest you create a "potty spot". We trained our dog to go there, use kitty litter, and clean it daily. This way although she got her walks, on bad weather days we just opened the door she ran out did her thing and ran back in. No need for us to get wet/cold. Good luck with yourn ew dog....think you'll cave in! Post pics :)

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Tue, 01/20/2015 - 09:40

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How old is your son? Do you want him to experience the unconditional love of a dog ? I mean...There is nothing like it. You know some of these sayings...Closing the barn door after the horse gets out etc. They are all right on point. So....When I say a dog is a man's best friend...I mean it. Let him experience it ! If he's worthy. None of this giving away crap. It's for keeps.

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Corey Bearak

For me it's very simple, you need to be willing to devote the time as a pet lover. It was a daily responsibility I eschewed. Much prefer being a parent. I can like the dogs in my life from Rusty my grandparent's mutt to Dad's Chocchi and my niece's Jackson (I think Shelly posted a pic on social media with me). I still enjoy not having the daily aspects of dog ownership.

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