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Jenner's Journey

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One could not go on the internet in the past week or turn on a television without seeing or hearing Bruce Jenner’s name. To me, he always has been that incredibly handsome athlete who captured America’s hearts when he won the gold medal at the 1976 Olympic decathlon and became the “best athlete in the world.” To my daughter’s generation, however, he is someone different. To her, Jenner is that bumbling father who appeared in the Kardashian reality show, a perception very different than that of me and my husband.


So, it was interesting to see how I, my husband, and my daughter would react to Jenner’s interview with Diane Sawyer concerning his transition to a women. I have to admit my initial reaction before the interview was very blasé, I felt that he absolutely had the right to live however he choose but naively questioned why such an attractive male would want to transition to a female. My daughter and husband felt the same about his right to live his life as he choose but questioned, a bit, his motivation in giving the interview. Given the brazen marketing of the Kardashian brand, they questioned the authenticity of his purpose in coming forward.


Watching the interview changed all of our minds. Jenner was extremely expressive and articulate about the battle he has been fighting since he was a child. He spoke openly and honestly about his daily struggles and his earlier attempt to transition to a woman in the 1980’s. And Diane Sawyer’s interviewing skills were first rate. She sensitively guided him through his story but was not afraid to ask the deeply personal questions.


Interestingly, my husband, daughter, and I all had the same reaction at the close of the interview; we were speechless. We all have a newfound respect for Jenner and his strength at publically discussing such a deeply personal issue. And, our respect for Diane Sawyer also soared due to her ability to sensitively tackle this challenging subject.


Kudos to Bruce Jenner for your honesty and your  desire to help those who share your struggle. My family wishes you all the best in your journey and  truly hope you find your happiness.

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Corey Bearak

Read some of the news stories. It explain a lot that we found odd about his behavior on that reality show. Things made sense. One can only wish him well.
Fred Klein

i was in the stands when he won in Montreal and am more impressed now.

Submitted by KeithCrosby on Sun, 04/26/2015 - 23:16

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Keith Crosby

In general I agree but I do wonder where will he take this next. Did I hear that he is going to make the balance of his transformation into a reality show? In the interview he was extremely genuine and I could really sense the pain that the journey has caused him, I only hope that he continues to proceed on his journey "respectfully" and not turn this all into a freak show for his personal financial gain ....

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Sun, 04/26/2015 - 23:45

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An important thing to know - I didn't see the interview, but my daughter told me this part - Jenner wants to be referred to as he right now. So that's what they did during the interview. But there was an explanation before (after? sometime not during the actual interview) that that's why they were doing that. Important to know that different people have different pronouns they feel comfortable with, and hard as it may be for us to remember, it is important to use the ones that people request. Stacey

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Mon, 04/27/2015 - 00:37

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I have a transgender person in my exercise class who started with us as male and has been transitioning as female over the past year. At first it was strange. It is still difficult sometimes to refer to her as she, her rather than him and he simply because she started in my life as a he. But the interview with Jenner gave me a new respect even for my co exercise participant. Instead of feeling strange but open minded. I now feel comfortable and openly excepting because it takes tremendous guts to simply be who you are in a society often tough about being different.
Ester Horowitz

I have a transgender person in my exercise class who started with us as male and has been transitioning as female over the past year. At first it was strange. It is still difficult sometimes to refer to her as she, her rather than him and he simply because she started in my life as a he. But the interview with Jenner gave me a new respect even for my co exercise participant. Instead of feeling strange but open minded. I now feel comfortable and openly excepting because it takes tremendous guts to simply be who you are in a society often tough about being different.
Daniel Schwartz

I grew up in the 70's and Bruce Jenner was a hero to us all. A great athlete and the first to have success marketing himself in commercials. I did watch the interview and was left with a more positive image of him than the recent "freak show" that he has been portrayed as. My favorite question was, if you ever married again, would it be with a man or woman? Such a complex situation for the storied life of an amazing athlete. I am curious to see how this all turns out for him and wish him the best.

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Mon, 04/27/2015 - 02:27

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I guess it's sad that he has had to struggle but I think that this opens the door for more reality television. I'm sure that we will soon be viewing his new show as a she. Personally, I am open minded about being a transgender,but he is all about the drama. I agree that Diane Sawyer was wonderful.

Submitted by SoniaSaleh on Mon, 04/27/2015 - 02:42

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Sonia Saleh

I didn't see the interview. I'm so glad he had the opportunity to speak about transgender and what he went through. I think in someway many of us feel like misfits and it's always a relief to know someone else feels the same way. So kudos to him for coming forward, which is difficult, and in so doing helping many others who are struggling with the same issue.

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Mon, 04/27/2015 - 05:59

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Being Trans myself, I have been hearing/reading comments ranging from strong approval to questioning his motives to sensationalizing a very personal struggle and decision. I am pleased to see cis-gender folks responding so positively to the interview which can only broaden the understanding of Trans identity and the internal emotional struggles it entails. What is missing from Jenner's account is the daily prejudice, discrimination and contempt that we non-celebrities often experience from the outside world. One Transwoman writer has claimed that Jenner has set Trans "identity" back 20 years. For perhaps a fuller account of Trans "identity," Kate Bornstein (one of the original Trans pioneers) was interviewed this morning (4/27) about her new book and the Jenner interview. I'm sure you can find her interview on YouTube.

Submitted by Laraine_Schwartz on Mon, 04/27/2015 - 06:19

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Laraine Schwartz

I think people in the limelight have a duty to come forward and use their power for the greater good. It is difficult to come out to the world in all cases, but it paves the way for those who are not so famous, who are struggling, just by opening minds of those who are unaware of the pain and prejudice and difficulty of living a life that is not what everyone else is assigning to you. Tomorrow SCOTUS hears oral argument on marriage equality. Thanks to all of the pioneers that came out over the years, and each person who has stepped out of the closet to proclaim with pride their identity, sexual or gender, to get the highest court in the land to proclaim, NO MORE DISCRIMINATION. NO MORE HATE. long road travelled....
Nancy Schess

I watched a good part of the interview and thought it was genuine and brave. I also agree that Diane Sawyer did a great job with the interview.

Submitted by Lucas_Meyer on Tue, 04/28/2015 - 04:14

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Lucas Meyer

I think it's TMI.

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