Happiness

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I am stealing from an article in the New York Times this weekend.  It was about the relationship between what you spend your money on and your happiness.  Do you choose to spend your dollars on things, or on events like vacations.  One is long lasting, the other fleeting.

 

Now maybe if you are rich, like Fred, you can go do both.  But that doesn't answer the question as to which gives you more happiness.

 

According to a study (there is always a study), the answer is vacations.  Buying a new couch or car or bicycle may make you very happy, but only for a short time.  After a while, you become accostomed to that thing, it will no longer be new and novel, and its affect on your happiness lessens.  I feel this way about new shoes, so I read on.

 

A vacation however, according to the study, while short lived and as expensive as getting all new kitchen appliances that may last for years, remains in your memory as a happy event, and therefore even though it is over so to speak makes and keeps you happy longer.

 

I think I have to agree with the article on this. Time to book a new memorable vacation for the betterment of my happiness.

 


Comments

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Sat, 04/18/2015 - 22:07

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I'll take the vacation, my wife can keep the kitchen appliances...
Daniel Schwartz

I totally agree, but for some reason I am more inclined to spend on an item and delay the vacation expense. But the item is definetly short lived in terms of overall happiness.
Fred Klein

My giving (especially to you) gives me psychic compensation which enriches me.

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Sun, 04/19/2015 - 00:04

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I hadn't thought of vacations in that context .... but do you have a minute for me to tell you about my vacation to Sicily 30+ years ago?

Submitted by Liz_Saldana on Sun, 04/19/2015 - 00:30

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Liz Saldana

We have been choosing experiences over things more often over the last few years. A vacation to celebrate a birthday or anniversary is more memorable than a new shirt or bauble (though baubles are still welcome). :)
Rona Gura

My husband and I say that we work to go on vacation. After losing his first wife at the age of 40, he has a unique perspective of living life to the fullest every day. And we do it by travelling.

Submitted by DanielHochler on Sun, 04/19/2015 - 02:33

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Daniel Hochler

I recall details from vacations I went on with my family over 10 years ago. Enjoyment from material things like clothes and new computers don't stand the test of
time like an experience.
Cayce Crown

Some items stand the test of time.
I'm still crazy about my apartment after 12 years...
Corey Bearak

I find enjoyment in the tangible and non-tangible. As to vacations, I make a point of including concerts and ballgames I attend, my Tuesday eve and Saturday morning hoops and summer pool weekends.

Submitted by SoniaSaleh on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 02:14

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Sonia Saleh

Happiness is a feeling you have when you enjoy yourself. and whatever makes you feel good. It can be in giving, an apartment, a meal, a car or a vacation, or reading a book. Interesting both a vacation and a thing require money, so is it the money that makes one happy? I sincerely doubt it but it does give you the freedom to enjoy your things or vacation more.

Submitted by Lucas_Meyer on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 05:19

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Lucas Meyer

My wife cares not a whit about jewelry, clothes, furs, cars and furniture. So I save a bundle. But vacations are another matter.

We usually do three trips a year: Christmas with her family in Buenos Aires, a just-the-two-of us around the Fourth of July (last few years in Eaat Hampton) holiday, and a family trip with the kids, often to Europe, although last year we went to Australia and New Zealand. And of course the odd weekends to visit our son in Boston, and maybe a long weekend (just the two of us) in the Berkshires.
Ellyn Finkelstein

I choose to spend my money on my favorite hobbies, ballroom dancing and photography. As well as dining with my sons or sharing a special event with them. As far as a vacation cannot even remember when I last took one! - wait I do remember, visiting my son at college in Boston! That was a great experience.

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