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Bashert

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My Gotham mentor partner, Flo Feinberg, has a wonderful favorite Yiddish word which she often tosses into our free flowing conversation. It is Bashert and it means "meant to be or predestined".

I thought of her special word last Saturday when we went into the City to see the Egon Schiele exhibit at the Neue Gallery located at the corner of 5th Avenue and 86th Street.

Our story opens with me dropping Joanne off at the museum and going off in search for a street parking spot. After a number of neighborhood traverses I landed on nearby Madison Avenue and 85th Street at the mercy of a hungry one hour Muni Meter.

Soon we were reunited inside the museum and after viewing the early 20th Century German art we repaired to the basement cafe where the German menu did not intrigue us. Instead, we decided to drive to a favorite Long Island City eatery. As we approached our car on Madison Avenue I spied a nice looking Bistro and proposed we lunch there. Joanne readily agreed and noticed that the neighborhood was familiar and remembered that her friend Carole lived nearby. I proposed she call Carole and invite her to join us for lunch.

It happens that it is both Joanne and Carole's birthday month and I suggested we celebrate over lunch with all the trimmings, including a smooth bottle of Pinot Noir. Under those circumstances lunch was perfectly celebratory and everybody was happy.

Looking back on our good time, one circumstance seemingly accidentally unfolded into the other as we followed them aimlessly toward our prize.

Bashert?



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Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Thu, 11/13/2014 - 20:09

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I'd call it serendipity.
Corey Bearak

You had to now it would be good when you get parking within a block of the museum

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Thu, 11/13/2014 - 22:41

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I love that story. The lesson is go with the flow......don't get in your own way- and pay attention. Those moments happen more often then you think - you just have to let them.

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Thu, 11/13/2014 - 23:05

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Absolutely! AKA "In the moment" and "There are no accidents" but "Bashert", like many of those Yiddishisms?, in a word, says it all. Loved being one of the Bashert beneficiaries.

Submitted by Michael__Appell on Fri, 11/14/2014 - 01:11

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Michael Appell

I vote for Serendipity; and would reserve Bashert for a life affirming event, actually, Shelley is my Barshert (my soulmate). Footnote, my grade school, PS 6 was on 85th & Madison until it later moved to 81st. So your hunt for parking brought you to a spot where I grew up; just coincidental

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Fri, 11/14/2014 - 01:53

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nice story...........
Flo Feinberg

I think it was Bashert that I happened to be reading Fred's blog while in Israel on an art tour!
Things that happen with some sort of otherworldly intervention are Bashert, or meant to be; Bashert reminds us that there are still things we can't explain so that we can continue to believe in magic!

Happy birthday to Joanne and Carole!



Happy birthday to Joanne and Carol

Submitted by Liz_Saldana on Fri, 11/14/2014 - 06:50

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Liz Saldana

Love it!

Happy Birthday Month to Joanne and Carol!
Amparo Connors

I love the word "Bashert"; learned it since 1987 when I began in the staffing industry. One 'boss' used it frequently and explained it as 'what's meant to be will be', without our own intervention. In practical terms to me it means to go with the flow, and allow things to unfold without over-planning and stressing...just like your day with Joanne. Happy Birthday to Joanne & Carol :)

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Fri, 11/14/2014 - 11:02

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It was bashert that you are penurious and had to find a spot on the street.
Fred Klein

Finally, someone gets to the essence of it. That hungry meter cost me $14 for 4 hours.

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Sat, 11/15/2014 - 06:42

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My life is Bashert....Just the other day I was flying into Denver. It was snowing and the temperature was hovering around zero. The visibility was 1 Mile in blowing snow. Ceiling was about 100 feet. The guy I fly with was flying this leg. I told you about him. I anticipated this happening for days. Taking the leg away would have been a confidence buster. As we passed the final fix to shoot the approach to Runway 35 R it was like The Red Sea parted. I mean as I watched the worry on my co-pilot's face disappear as I could momentarily see the runway 5 miles ahead. The field closed up right after we landed. That's Bashert Brother ! You and I are Bashert Brother !

Hollander Sends

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Sun, 11/16/2014 - 01:33

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Bashert would have been if you walked into a restaurant and Carol was there eating her birthday lunch....btw....Neue has the very best strudel anywhere....

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