A Very Special Meeting

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We are privileged to have Jefferson Crowther, his wife Allison, and their family, in our Gotham family. Although there were 34 (mostly-unrelated) people around the table at yesterday’s meeting of Formica and Open House, for me it was a family meal in which one of the family members shared something special -- something very special.
As Jefferson spoke of their incredible experiences surrounding last week’s opening of the 9/11 Museum, we were once-again touched by history in a very personal way that transcended the spoken words. Jefferson shared his comforting words as a grandfather to his granddaughter who never knew her uncle yet knew of his bravery and the emptiness left behind in the family. We were taken back to the moment that Jefferson gave his then seven-year old son a red bandana to use for the real stuff instead of the crisp white Irish linen handkerchief that was folded neatly into the jacket’s breast pocket. And how his mother marveled that Welles still carried that Red Bandana so many years later when she and Jefferson visited him in college. The Red Bandana that revealed the Man in the Red Bandana to his parents for the first time on Memorial Day weekend in 2002.

Gotham honors the memory of Welles Remy Crowther - the Man in the Red Bandana - with our family’s greatest honor - the Red Bandana Award. A tribute to self-sacrifice in helping others.

Thank you, Jefferson, again and again, for being part of our family.

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Fred Klein

I'm hoping a Throw Back Thursday photo of Welles and family will be posted on our Wall
Ester Horowitz

I am faklempt and find it hard to speak about without tears.
Amparo Connors

As Jefferson spoke yesterday, you could literally hear a pin drop. We were united, as family should be, in remembering and honoring the remarkable courage of Welles Crowther. Thank you Jefferson for sharing the details of the White House call, the 9/11 Memorial Museum opening ceremony, and your amazing family

Submitted by Cheri_Elferis on Thu, 05/22/2014 - 02:45

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Cheri Elferis

Oh that we lived in a world with more people like the Crowthers.

Submitted by Anne_Kleinman on Thu, 05/22/2014 - 09:14

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Anne Kleinman

Links for the videos documenting the bravery and compassion of Welles Crowther can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-A29HU-e4Ws , https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-A29HU-e4Ws ,
Nancy Schess

I always leave a meeting with Jefferson feeling like I know Welles just a little more. It was a special meeting and thanks Ben for writing about it.
Corey Bearak

It was special watching the replay of the 9/11 museum ceremony the camera cutting to Jeff apparently mouthing the words Allison delivered. Both showed tremendous poise at the ceremony. Not unsurprising that getting to know Jeff and his family just one of the side benefits in this tribe.

Submitted by Lucas_Meyer on Tue, 05/27/2014 - 01:39

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Lucas Meyer

Kudos to Jeff and Alison for raising a hero. That's not an easy thing to do.

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