Prom Dress Drama

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Think of it as “Say Yes to the Dress” meets “Facebook”. Prom season is quickly approaching and hundreds, dare say thousands, of high school seniors are dress shopping. But unlike the days before social media, today the season starts with the creation of the “Prom Group” on Facebook for the solitary purpose of housing photos of the chosen dress wear. This way, high school seniors can hopefully avoid that awkward moment when they walk into prom only to find out that their best friend is wearing the same exact dress.

OK, logical I suppose, but what are the most appropriate rules for the group? For example, can a girl post a dress she is “probably” going to buy? I suppose this is conceptually appropriate since it accomplishes the same goal of avoiding that awkward moment. But, what if she doesn’t buy the dress and that “reservation” keeps someone else from making the purchase? Is that right?

How about buying the same dress as someone else but in a different color? And, do you ask before buying?

Never, in my wildest dreams, could I have anticipated the protocol around the prom dress purchase.

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Submitted by Liz_Saldana on Mon, 02/10/2014 - 23:34

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Liz Saldana

It was so much simpler when I went to prom. You bought a dress and coordinated the colors (hopefully) with your date and that was it. Participating in a FaceBook group is just too much work. Do those that don't participate get penalized if they wear one of the "spoken for" dresses because they didn't know some one else bought it?
Nancy Schess

In this instance, boys have it SO much easier. There are much fewer options for tuxedos

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Tue, 02/11/2014 - 00:13

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I have a clothing pantry out of my shul. Young Isrsel New Hyde Park by LIJ. Everything is free. We accept all dress clothes and we are open to all. All the best, Mark Krieger

Submitted by SoniaSaleh on Tue, 02/11/2014 - 00:17

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Sonia Saleh

OMG! Do brides do the same too?

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Tue, 02/11/2014 - 00:41

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Not to spoil the fun, but: This seems to be more about competition (who's the prettiest and has the best body and the most money) than avoiding an "awkward moment." As for what are the most appropriate rules: I suggest not playing the game.
Corey Bearak

Frankly I go for what works for the person wearing a given outfit. No two people (exception perhaps Identical twins) the same. The fit, the body type, the hair, the accessories, the shoes, a sash perhaps, or shawl all can differentiate.

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