I have seen the term “birth order” mentioned a lot lately on the internet. Many psychologists say that birth order influences one’s personality. Other scientists state that there is no convincing evidence that links personality or behavior to birth order.

I am a middle child. I have an older brother (the first born male "Prince") and a younger sister (the baby). I have told all my life that I am a “typical middle child.” I know that, at my core, I am a people pleaser and a peace maker. My sister says that I emphatically avoid any confrontations in my personal life more than anyone she knows.

I have always interpreted being a “typical middle child” as being someone who is looking to find their place and, thus, looking to please others. Without reading any of the literature, I guess I always assumed that my birth order has influenced my personality.


What is your birth order? Do you believe it has influenced you?