How good is your word?

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When I was a young girl, I spent a lot of time with my Dad. He started his construction company when I was a wee kindergartner and I rode next to him in his pickup truck everywhere. Over time, I became the permit girl, the organizer, the excel-spreadsheet expert, employee relations, collections and Dad’s biggest confidant. Through his many lessons, the one that meant the most to him was “being a man of his word”. He would often say, “all the money and power in the world is fine, but your promise is sacred. When you say you are going to do something, follow through.” Additionally, he ALWAYS answers his phone.

About a month ago, I was engaged in a negotiation with a client. I asked her, “how can I do more business with you”. She asked me for a killer rate on her accounts.” SO, I proceeded to say, if I give you a killer rate, will you bring me new money and allow me to invest a portion in the market? She promised me the business. A month went by and I became leery, BUT this client delivered with way more than she had promised. Through her demonstration of her word, she gained my respect and my loyalty as her money manager. I know in the future when she makes a promise, her word is gold. She has proven herself to me and now I will move mountains for her.

Does this mean something to you? Do you share this value?

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Fred Klein

Loyalty, reliability, energy and truthfulness can take you a long way. Also, look them in the eye!

Submitted by SoniaSaleh on Tue, 04/02/2019 - 22:51

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Sonia Saleh

It’s the same advice I was raised on. I do notice some people do not keep their word, and there can be a variety of reasons; from their manager said no to they simply forgot. And I must admit I’m guilty too. Still I think the majority of us mean it when we say it and are coming from good intentions.
Corey Bearak

Loyalty matters and this blog belongs in space enjoyed by past blogs on this topic
Carly Bentley

All the above are the pillars....success follows those pillars. In business, friendships and the like.
Carly Bentley

I sent this off to Dad and I think it filled him up for the day.
Joshua Zinder

Ones word is everything without it you are nothing!
Daniel Schwartz

Love this topic. "Your Word" is something we all can have and doesn't cost a penny. But its value is priceless.

Submitted by NeilHollander on Thu, 04/04/2019 - 07:00

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Neil Hollander

If nothing else I am a man of my word . THAT you can take to the bank ...

Hollander Sends

Submitted by MarilynGenoa on Thu, 04/04/2019 - 07:10

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Marilyn Genoa

Many of us apparently were raised on the same advise---and I think you did more than fill your dad for one day!

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