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In a page out of Mitch’s playbook, I had to write about a story I read about in the news this week. Apparently, in France, the government has a say in what names a parent can use for their children. Up until 1993, parents can only choose names from an approved government list. While the list is no longer mandatory, the government has been known to intervene when it determines that children’s names are inappropriate.

 

 

Recently, in Brittany, France a baby girl was born whose parents named her Liam. A public prosecutor wants to ban the family from using this name because it "would be likely to create a risk of gender confusion" for the child down the road. And what's more, he said that naming a little girl Liam is "contrary to the interest of the child and could harm her in her social relations." The case is still winding its way through the French court system and there have not yet been a determination whether little Liam will keep her name.

 

 

Twenty-two years ago, when my youngest daughter was born we named her Sydney. At that time, Sydney was a predominately male name. In fact, after her birth we received gifts from two different couples that were obviously meant for a boy. I remember chuckling as I returned each gift, explaining to two different sales clerks that my child was, actually, a girl. Clearly, if I lived in France, my daughter’s name would have been deemed inappropriate and prosecutors definitely would have been knocking on my door.

 

 

Would your child's name make theapproved  list in France?

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Corey Bearak

The names we chose passed muster but my daughter when the times comes selected a name she feels appropriate no matter the gender.

Submitted by MarilynGenoa on Mon, 03/19/2018 - 00:19

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Marilyn Genoa

My eldest daughter's name is Jamie, a name which is definitely gender neutral and apparently was extremely popular the year she was born (although I didn't realize that until she was already given that name). May not have made the cut in France (never heard of that law--interesting but scary). Determined not to do that again, my second was named Alexandra, with the intention of calling her Sasha. That day almost every baby born at North Shore was either Alexandra or Alexander---go figure. And noone every called her Sasha, she was and will always be Ali. Again neutral name depending on the emphasis when spoken. By the way, I have a grandniece named Syndey, great name.
Fred Klein

My son Alexander would've been Alexandra
Daniel Schwartz

My Son's name, Joseph would have been fine on the list. We were not looking for anything out of the ordinary and it just happens to be my middle name, which my wife liked.
Cayce Crown

Silly. Although my legal name is Catherine, Ive been Cayce since I left the womb and my sister is Brent. Clearly my parents had some issues. My brother is Treadwell Rice (the III) But I am so grateful for my GREAT name, I'd be living in Georgia in a trailer with a more common name... #Notthattheresanythingwrongwiththat

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