Are the Times Truly Changing?
Last weekend, I noticed a common theme in several stories in the Sunday Times. There were three major stories concerning the sexual harassment and assault of women. On the front page of the main section, there was an in depth story detailing the investigation and acts of Dr. Lawrence Nassar, who sexually assaulted numerous young female athletes. On the front page of the Sunday Review was an interview with Uma Thurman who detailed the sexual harassment and assault she suffered by Harvey Weinstein. Also contained in the Sunday Review section was an editorial concerning the sexual assault allegations Dylan Farrow made against Woody Allen twenty-five years ago.
Obviously, reading these three stories saddened me. But they also brought me back to 1991. At that time, I was a young attorney in practice at a large New York City law firm and Anita Hill was testifying before the Senate Judiciary Committee. She testified that Supreme Court Justice nominee Clarence Thomas had sexually harassed her while he was her supervisor at the Department of Education and the EEOC. I was transfixed by her testimony at the time. I believed that she was speaking her truth as her assertions were not vastly dissimilar to incidents that had occurred to me while working and to most of my female colleagues.
While Clarence Thomas went onto a seat on the Supreme Court, many of us at the time- myself included-were hopeful that Ms. Hill’s testimony had finally shed light on a subject that needed to be addressed. We were also optimistic that, as a result, actions that were apparently acceptable in the past would be changed. We were certain that we were at a historical moment.
The subsequent passing of legislation concerning hostile work environment was, for me, a promising sign that necessary change was happening. But the recent revelations of the #metoo movement makes me unhappily question whether any true change occurred. Reading the allegations against previously well respected journalists such as Charlie Rose, Glen Thrush, Michael Oreskes, and Matt Lauer as well as numerous other men made me wonder what, if any, effect the legislation had. It saddens me to think that all of the legislative change that occurred in the last thirty years did nothing to change concrete behavior.
I find myself hopeful again that we are at a historical moment wherein the actual behavior will change. What do you think?

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I kept thinking of this version of a famous tune: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sfnn-bXaUao&index=10&list=RDufo3Hw-5DUM
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What Fred said, ONLY lets not forget its ultimately the MEN who have to change their behavior. And take responsibility for their actions or lack of acting.
What Corey said, absolutely. LOVE that version, saw James & Carly do it at the Palladium. Like the new updated Fallon/Dylan Version too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZ9drv78dCQ
Things are better than they have ever been.
People are becoming more aware and you can't legislate that.
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By the time I was 31, I was already sexually harassed more times than I could count. I worked in management at the Bellevue Stratford Hotel when I was 21 and if I didn't kick my attacker and kick open a locked door, I would have been raped. I remember going to the top management of the hotel (then managed by the Fairmont chain), who patently did not believe me and told me I was making it all up. I later found out that my attacker went on to attack another fellow employee and was subsequently fired.
I also worked in high-powered law firms and was assaulted by many top attorneys behind closed doors. I guess I was too naive at the time to tell anyone and I was much too scared for my job to bring charges.
Little did I know that I was to be sexually assaulted several more times all the way into my early 50's. It didn't matter the profession -- I was assaulted as a secretary working in hotel management, as a paralegal in high-powered law firms, when I went out on my own as an interior designer (assaulted by my own sub-contractors), and even as a Realtor when showing a property to a 72 year-old man.
If I only knew then what I know now, I could have brought charges against all these men and practically could have owned their firms. But again, it's the same old, same old .... who would have believed an attractive young woman against an older, powerful, male professional?
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