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Second Thoughts and Kindness

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Margaret Mitchell, Scarlett O'Hara, Melanie Hamilton, Kindness

On this day in 1937, Margaret Mitchell won the Pulitzer prize for her first, and only, novel: Gone with the Wind. She wrote the book while recovering from an ankle injury and only showed it to a publisher's talent scout after initially saying she didn't have anything worth showing him. Second thoughts can be valuable.

Being born and raised primarily in Atlanta, I understood its cultural implications and, still, despite its dated, even racist, and inaccurate, depictions feel rather fondly about the film.

Who can ignore the passion and beauty of Katie Scarlett O'Hara?

The attractiveness of Rhett Butler?

The kindness of Melanie Hamilton?

 

Melanie, Ashley and Scarlett

 

My vision for myself is to learn to have the kindness of Melanie. When I first saw the film, about a hundred years ago, I thought she was one dull woman. Today I think she is the greatest person in the film. She continually counteracts direct hostility, insult and thoughtlessness with kindness. She doesn't seem to take anything personally. She is filled with gratitude and generosity for all the people she sees.

She would be a terrific Gotham member.

Scarlett's passion and determination are formidable and appealing, but Melanie's warmheartedness takes the prize.

 

Who do you admire? Ashley? Rhett? Mammy? Prissy?

 

There ain't nothing from the outside that can lick any of us. - Margaret Mitchell

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Fred Klein

Mammy (Hattie McDaniel), the epitome Best Supporting Actress!

Submitted by MarilynGenoa on Tue, 05/02/2017 - 22:25

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Marilyn Genoa

Interesting. Time to re-view the film -- curious how I would react to the characters now.
Corey Bearak

It's a long film and not sure I ever watched it in its entirety but only character I recall is Gable's and I don identify with any. Never read the book and do not hear it calling my name but you never know. I do think it's great when great lit affects you.
Daniel Schwartz

I think it is time to re-watch again. Like Corey, I can't say I can remember ever sitting through the entire film at once.
Rona Gura

Ashley was such an interesting and tortured character. He fascinates me.
Victoria Drogin

Ok. True confession.... it was my favorite book (and I loved the movie) for years. My family's nickname for me is Scarlett. And yes, I try to channel my inner Melanie. But the best part is, I found my Rhett - and was smart enough to know it! ;)

Submitted by DebbieLindner on Wed, 05/03/2017 - 09:14

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Debbie Lindner

I saw the topic for this blog early this morning before a full day of meetings -but the memories of GWTW stayed with me all day. I remember staying up on a summer night and reading the book through to the end - sigh! great book. And the movie... I remember it was so long there was an intermission - so fancy to my young mind! Went to the movie with my Mom, my sister, and my Aunt - a great memory thanks Cayce I smiled all day because of this reminder and happy memory!

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