Submitted by Rona_Gura on

Coming to Understanding

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Politics

I want to thank Mitch for his blog this past Saturday.  His words helped me to decide to publish the foregoing.

 

Since the presidential election, there has been a political détente going on in my home. Half of the members of my household are fiscal conservatives, although socially liberal and the other half of my household are both fiscally and socially liberal. Conversations immediately after the election were both emotional and heated. Therefore, since the November election, we have agreed not to discuss politics.


 

Given that the most of the news has been flooded with political stories since the election, I have found our so-called ban to be very limiting. There have been numerous days I found myself wanting to discuss the day’s events with my family but holding myself back. Lately, however, it appears that we have been gently pulling away from our restrictions. We are slowly inching towards having enlightening discussions that appear to both hear and consider the other side’s point of view.


 

When we originally “banned” political discussion in our home the rationale was that it had become too emotional a topic. But as we gently increase our discussions, I find that we each have respect for the other side’s point of view. I have also been very surprised to come to understand that we all seem to want similar outcomes. Perhaps we just disagree as to how to get there.

 

 

 

I am glad that the ban is slowly lifting in our home. With discussion comes more understanding. Are you listening at all to the other side?

Comments

Corey Bearak

When my dear friend Tony Suber and I would commute to the Bronx Borough President's office in my agency-provided car, Tony would coax to put on talk radio instead of sportstalk or a classic rock station or FUV. He would say let's listen to the crazies. The idea was to know what the other side (generally right leaning or worse) thought. So we'd listen to Hannity some eve drives back to Queens or on the way to some official function. In the morning it was Curtis and Kuby. So sometimes -- rarely -- I might put on Fox stations. The kids live outside the home and share my progressive positions and there are discussions from time to time via phone, text or email. Where Shelly and I differ, you'll need to reach out to her and you'll not see it posted on social media.
In terms of my practice, I need to know the other side to helps my clients prevail.
Fred Klein

Mature and open discourse is the goal. Getting there is the problem.
Cayce Crown

Calm, non-hostile discussion is all I'm interested in. When you find other adults who can do that, it is great.
“If you don't find God in the next person you meet, it is a waste of time looking for him further.” - MahatmaGandhi
Mitch Tobol

With tolerance comes understanding. With understanding comes respect. With respect comes love.
Nancy Schess

You may, or may not, remember my Thanksgiving blog posting our no politics sign that we displayed on the table. Frankly, I applaud the Guras for inching past this. In some of our circles we haven't found the way yet.

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