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Don't Walk Away Renee

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Feminism, Renee Rabinowitz, Misogyny

It's March, let's get back on the humanity track.

Renee Rabinowitz is a new hero. Time for more changes.

From the NY Times/Uriel Sinai:

JERUSALEM — RENEE RABINOWITZ is a sharp-witted retired lawyer with a Ph.D. in educational psychology, who escaped the Nazis in Europe as a child. Now she is about to become a test case in the battle over religion and gender in Israel’s public spaces — and the skies above — as the plaintiff in a lawsuit accusing El Al, the national airline, of discrimination.

Ms. Rabinowitz was comfortably settled into her aisle seat in the business-class section on El Al Flight 028 from Newark to Tel Aviv in December when, as she put it, “this rather distinguished-looking man in Hasidic or Haredi garb, I’d guess around 50 or so, shows up.”

The man was assigned the window seat in her row. But, like many ultra-Orthodox male passengers, he did not want to sit next to a woman, seeing even inadvertent contact with the opposite sex as verboten under the strictest interpretation of Jewish law. Soon, Ms. Rabinowitz said, a flight attendant offered her a “better” seat, up front, closer to first class.

Reluctantly, Ms. Rabinowitz, an impeccably groomed 81-year-old grandmother who walks with a cane because of bad knees, agreed.

“Despite all my accomplishments — and my age is also an accomplishment — I felt minimized,” she recalled in a recent interview in her elegantly appointed apartment in a fashionable neighborhood of Jerusalem.

“For me this is not personal,” Ms. Rabinowitz added. “It is intellectual, ideological and legal. I think to myself, here I am, an older woman, educated, I’ve been around the world, and some guy can decide that I shouldn’t sit next to him. Why?”

“When did modesty become the sum and end all of being a Jewish woman?” Ms. Rabinowitz asked. Citing examples like the biblical warrior Deborah, the matriarch Sarah and Queen Esther, she noted: “Our heroes in history were not modest little women.”

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Imagine thinking you have the right to tell someone to move just because of their sex. Or any reason, for that matter. And the real kicker is that it isn't even required by the religion, many established Jewish Rabbis and scholars say that interpretation isn't valid. It is just plain old misogyny. I'm tired of it and I'm glad that more and more women aren't going to take it anymore.

You can read the whole story HERE.

(The Italian news outlet CorriereTV is calling her "the Rosa Parks from Heaven".)


“The idea of having a Haredi population is wonderful, as long as they don’t tell me what to do.” RENEE RABINOWITZ

Comments

Fred Klein

My wife walked into a room and tried to shake the hand of a man in the room and she was shocked to see him recoil and tell her he could not based on his religion.
Rona Gura

I have to wonder why since it was the man who had "the issue," why wasn't his seat changed?

Submitted by StephenMichel on Wed, 03/02/2016 - 03:27

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Stephen Michel

I know an ultra-Orthodox Rabbi. His comment on the subject is; Which is the greater sin? To embarrass someone who does not know my rules, or shake the women's hand. He shook the hand and then explained his issue.
Cayce Crown

Supposedly no other seat that wasn't next to a woman. It's certainly not holy behavior.
Geraldine Newman

The flight attendant "offered her" another seat. She did not have to take it. Once taking it, she accepted the trade. Anyone can ask for anything; if the other person agrees, they must take responsibility for the choice they made. To say the other person should have had other motives is totally irrelevant. Calling her "Rosa Parks" is some journalist trying to shine a light on themselves. Rosa refused. Renee did not. Also, one of the beauties of the Jewish religion, is that everyone explains everything differently. In Israel they say, if you put 2 Jews together, you get 3 opinions. Beautiful freedom.
Corey Bearak

Many Orthodox women do not shake hands either. It gets interesting in mixed professional settings. I've seen the halachic rule "ignored" in some cases.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6uqBTzfcIk4&feature=endscreen
or
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lXQdG6UdKqk&list=AL94UKMTqg-9ACbcfT5aQ_dQeUsilkt0tA
Rona Gura

So, because he's male, he got what we all covet on a plane-a seat with no one next to him??? Ugh!!!!
Rona Gura

By the way, my second job as a lawyer was in a firm that represented many Orthodox real estate developers. I recall, prior to going into my first meeting with one such client, being briefed on proper dress and mannerisms. I remember thinking, "I guess I'm not Jewish enough."

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