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What Does the Word Mean?

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I thought the following would be a good follow-up to Cayce’s blog from last week.

 

 

The word “feminist” has been tossed around my house a lot lately. My family knows that I consider myself a feminist. Recently, at dinner my older daughter told us that she also considers herself a feminist. My younger daughter contributed to the conversation by stating that she does not consider herself a feminist but feels that everyone should be treated the same. I then told her that, to me, that makes her a feminist.

 

 

Thereafter, I read a blog by a longtime friend who choose to give up her career to stay at home with her  children. In writing about her choice to stay home she wrote, “Obviously I am not a feminist given the choice I made to stay home with my children.” In my comment I wrote, “I do not believe being a feminist is about the choice you made but, rather, your right to make that choice.” An editor for a national website that wanted to publish the blog had a similar observation, she asked my friend to edit that section and categorize herself as a feminist. My friend now realizes, at age 50 that she is, in fact, a feminist.

 

 

Lately, I seem to be finding feminism everywhere I look, including Cayce’s blog. But what does the word really mean? What is your definition of feminism?

Comments

Fred Klein

How about a female who asserts and stands up for her rights?
Riva Schwartz

In college, we would say "If you are not a feminist, you are a masochist"! -( Sisters Rising, Syracuse U, 1971)
Cayce Crown

MEN can be feminists too. Didn't you read my blog? Argh.
Its a point of view that ALL can be treated equally. Look up Justin Trudeau, he is setting a great example.
Cayce Crown

I'm with you Corey, ALL issues are HUMAN issues, but the reality is that misogyny still reigns supreme, so in calling ourselves feminists we are working to rebalance what is way out of synch.
Rona Gura

I'm in agreement with Cayce on this one. I know a lot of men that I would call feminists. Especially you my friend.
Flo Feinberg

By making the decision to stay at home with her children, your friend, in my strong opinion, is definitely a feminist. Knowing the difference between making a choice and having the right to choose is paramount. Her decision was made by her, not for her! Go girl.....!!
Nancy Schess


Truth is, I don't really like labels. If feminism means that I believe that women shouldn't have barriers because of their gender, then I am a feminist. If feminism means that I think women should be able to make choices for their lives, then I am a feminist. I just don't think I like the label.

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