Networking 101

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I was talking to a colleague the other day about my entrance into the world of networking many years ago. The theme of our conversation was that no one had taught either of us how. We just jumped in and figured out how to make it work. Of course, I was lucky to have the master networker as my mentor (you all know who I am talking about!) but not everyone has that same fortune. And the concept doesn’t come naturally to everyone.

We then started talking about the basics of networking – what makes it work and what makes it fail.

The condensed version of my answer was that successful networking is about getting to know someone, listening well and asking the question “how can I help you?” with the genuine intent to do so. 

What is your answer? What makes networking work and what makes it fail?

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Tom Gallin

Time is what makes networking successful or not. Just like maintaining a friendship requires face to face time, networking does even more so, especially in the beginning.
Rona Gura

I agree with you. I think Gotham's mantra that it is better to give than receive sets us apart and helps make it work.

PS And one important lesson I have learned, when I send a referral via email, i.e. in response to a Fred's List request, I always include the contact information for the person including their phone number. It makes it so much easier for the person seeking the referral to make the contact.

Submitted by RobertGiamboi on Tue, 01/19/2016 - 23:29

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Robert Giamboi

Genuinely taking the time to get to know someone. I've been to networking events and have seen things that have really turned me off- case in point: About a year ago I watched a woman rush into a recently vacated seat next to a guy who had just finished a conversation. The woman pushed her business card in front of the man, took out her pad and pen, and said, "So what do you do?" As soon as this woman made the determination that he wasn't a good prospect for her, she grabbed her business card and got up and walked away. I couldn't believe what I'd just witnessed. I'm sitting there thinking, "How do you know he doesn't have 100 good, qualified prospects for you? If you'd only taken the time to get to know him."

It does take time to network but if done properly you'll never go hungry.
Steve Reisner

Nancy - what a great question.

So many people go to "networking events" to collect business cards. Their goal is to send an email the following morning (we have all gotten them at 8:58AM in our in box)...and they always say the same thing - Great to meet you, here are all the things my company does, what can I sell you today?

The successful networker's email, will be something more along the lines of: it was great meeting you, I enjoyed our conversation, and when can we get some time together to see how I might be able to help YOU grow your business.

It is truly better to give than to receive, and getting to know someone is the first step in the process.

As for your mentor and master networker - you have taken his lessons and made them your own. I hope we can all say the same.
Corey Bearak

Networking involves a commitment to process -- being open, friendly and offering help, and being real. it must include patience since relations take time.

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