06/26/15

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I moved to New York City in 1975, subway fare was 35 cents, I thought a studio apartment in Greenwich Village for $180 a month was too much money and New Year's Eve in Times Square was a lot of fun.

 

I've seen a lot of changes. A. Lot. Of. Changes. I still think New York City is the greatest city in the world, especially Manhattan (I'm warming up to Brooklyn and Queens). Yet, in my 40 years of living on this tiny island have I never experienced a greater city wide celebration than than the Marriage Equality law coming into reality. I surround myself with people who support, confront and inspire me.

 

In case you missed Justice Kennedy's closing paragraph: "No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice and family. In forming a marital union, two people becoming something greater than once they were. As some of the petitioners in these cases demonstrate, marriage embodies a love that may endure even past death. It would misunderstand these men and women to say they disrespect the idea of marriage. Their plea is that they do respect it. respect it so deeply that they seek to find its fulfillment for themselves. Their hope is not to be condemned to live in loneliness, excluded from one of civilizations oldest institutions. They ask for equal dignity in the eyes of the law. The Constitution grants them that right. The judgement of the Court of Appeals for the Sixth Circuit is reversed."

 

I don't know if I'm ever going to get married, my sweetheart and I have been together close to 28 years, but now, for the first time, in the eyes of the federal government of these United States of America, I can.

Comments

Corey Bearak

Following the excitement in the media, social media and in comments by friends made clear how much society has changed for the better over the course of my life. Yes discrimination, hate and inequality persist but more and more people stand united against these scourges and recognize just how unacceptable each is.

Cayce that you and your sweetheart enjoy a choice so many of us already share make the ruling all the more special!
Fred Klein

You don't have to be a weatherman to know how the wind's blowing...

Submitted by VikramRajan on Tue, 06/30/2015 - 21:48

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Vik Rajan

I wish the United States were the trendsetter & leader for civilization it once was. But I'll take any progress as victory. And to paraphrase Colbert, this is gonna make for some awkward conversations for commitment-phobes let alone homophobes.

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