Remembering

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This is Purim, and it is a time for remembering and forgetting.  It is sometimes confusing.  For example we are told in the Torah that when God grants us safety from all our enemies "in the land that the Lord your God is giving you as a hereditary portion, you shall blot out the memory of Amalek from under heaven."  Then it says in the next sentence, "Do not forget!"


Hold on.  Are we to blot out the memory, that is forget, or not forget as we are then commanded?  This reminds me of the Abbott and Costello skit where they are in a car and Costello is pulling out of a parking spot and Abbott tells him to back up, and then says, "OK, go ahead," and Costello is hopefully confused and just keeps slamming on the brakes


The Rabbi made an interesting point though.  He asked how many people would like to have a better memory, and most people raised their hands.  Then he told us about Funes El Memorioso, a short story by the Argentine write Jorge Luis Borges.  The gist of the story is that 19 year old Funes had fallen from his horse and from that day forward he remembered everything, and could not blot a thing from his memory, even the shape of the clouds every day.  His perfect memory haunted him and turned out to be a curse.


Maybe sometimes it is better to forget things.  Like insults, or fights with your husband or wife, or embarassing moments.  Perhaps an imperfect memory is not so bad.  I guess the moral is, remember to forget.

 


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Submitted by Janet_Adler on Sun, 02/24/2013 - 00:39

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Janet Adler

If I could remember everything I have forgotten my head would explode. And for some of the things I have forgotten it is a blessing!
Corey Bearak

I recall what I need to know; I retain access to info I need to recall if I need some help: I reserve the right to share what I know or can access, and when to share and/ or use it; and like our co-founder I remember slights and inappropriate actions or much worse, but I reserve the right to decide when and how to act in re-action. The moral: it is best to know my favorite lines in a certain Jimmy Cliff movie that played midnight s during my college and law school days.
One last thing. In terms of Talmudic study, reviewing the same verse year after years can offer different gleanings and insights each time it gets read and studied. That remains a reason for my view that no matter our age, we continue to learn. Heck, even our co-founder admits to discovering his "oracle" in his 7th decade.

Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Sun, 02/24/2013 - 23:43

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This reminds me of an Elvis Presley song from the mid fifties that was the flip side of "Heartbreak Hotel". The song was entitled, "I forgot to remember to forget". Now, how did I drag that up from my memory bank? - from Jeff Crowther.

Submitted by Linda_Newman on Mon, 02/25/2013 - 02:54

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Linda Newman

And where are the hammentaschen?

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