Career Day

Career Day
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Last Friday, I participated in Career Day at a local middle school.  A close friend is a teacher at the school and runs the program.  She asked me to talk to the students about practicing law.

 

What an interesting experience – for me.  In preparing what I wanted to talk about, I had to step back and think about how to explain what I do, why I do it and how it works, to a group of 12–13-year-olds.  Notably, a different muscle than one I am used to.

 

Those that were brave enough to come up with their own questions (rather than the pre-set questions the teachers had provided) had really intuitive and practical thoughts.  In response to certain questions, I shared my thoughts about the skill set for a successful lawyer, or what courses might help to chart a young lawyer’s direction.    

 

Some students shared that they wanted to pursue the profession too. When asked why, most said they were good at (and enjoyed) arguing.  My response was that the best lawyers were more skilled at listening and that to make a good argument you had to first have an understanding of the problem and potential solutions.

 

I very much hope to be invited back next year.

Comments

Daniel Schwartz

Sounded very satisfying. I love the point about being a good listener. Same advice in sales.
Fred Klein

Listening and thinking before you speak!
Shelley Simpson

I used to do that quite a bit back in the day. What I enjoyed the most was visiting schools where the students were rarely directed toward careers that required a college degree let alone a graduate degree. Your presentation served to introduce an option some in the class might not have thought was open to them.
Robert Intelisano

Love this! One cannot learn by speaking as one is only repeating what they already know. Listening is an underrated skill!
Brian Timpe

A great lesson for young people to learn that it is how information is communicated and not just being the loudest person in the room.
Nancy Schess

Love that, Shelley. In our rooms, we were trying to show students the flexibility of a law degree to bring good to the community -- rather than focusing on how much money could be made.
Nancy Schess

So very true. I told a story of a deposition I took once where my adversary started yelling and becoming unruly. The louder he was, the softer I spoke. It broke his momentum and we were abl eto get back to the business of deposing his client.

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