Submitted by Fred on

What Goes around Comes Around

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Last week I wrote about my most poignant Christmas memory, it  involved my mother giving and then taking away a prized toy top on Christmas Day when I was a little boy.  

I wrote the blog from the heart and was surprised by how much credit my mom received for inspiring the birth of Gotham when she whispered to me "It's better to give than receive."

What surprised me even more was the heartening gesture of my neighbors (the Levines) of gifting me a facsimile of that long ago lost, but not forgotten, top.  Words can hardly describe my appreciation. 

What's more, two days ago, on Christmas Day, I opened my presents and, can you believe, there were 4 additional tops. This time from my wife Joanne and other gift givers who prefer anonymity. 

All this remembering and gifting had my head (and new tops) spinning.  

Truly, what goes around comes around and around and around...

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Paul Napolitano

I forgot to tell you the story about my son Derek. We went to a game with a few of his friends when he was about eight years old. Yankees versus White Sox. All they wanted to do was catch a foul ball. Luck would have it that a foul ball by Frank Thomas was hit in our direction. I scrambled and got the ball. He was so thrilled when I gave him the ball that he and his friends were jumping up and down. A man who appeared to have cerebral palsy came over to me and said he would like to buy the ball from me because he promised his nephew he would try to get a foul ball. I said I would have to ask my son. Derek took one look at the man and said “Of course you can give this to your nephew“ and handed him the ball without a moment remorse. I was so proud of him!
Hans Hanson

When "gifts" of any kind, including smiles, well-wishes, prayers, and friendly greetings are given genuinely with meaningful intent to bring joy to the other person without expectation of something in return, the joy of it all comes back around 100 times... around and around and around!
Thank you, Fred ✨️
Benjamin Geizhals

A wonderful end to the story.....but, somehow, I don’t belong eve that this is the end.
Fred Klein

Derek and I should form a "Have For A Moment" Club!
Ray Walcott

It goes to shows that what we give often returns to us in unexpected ways.
Robert Intelisano

Wow, great story Paul! Merry Christmas to you and your awesome family!
Brian Timpe

I like how this shows that if we open up to people about personal stories and life events, it creates an opportunity for someone to listen and possibly give back in some fashion.

Submitted by Judy_Mauer on Fri, 12/27/2024 - 01:41

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Judy Mauer

Karma - the wheel just goes round and round ….
Paula Oleska

Congratulations, Fred! Now you have five tops! My head is spinning in anticipation of what will happen next...
Fred Klein

You could be lead singer, backed up by The Four Tops :)
ODEY RAVIV

Great continuation of the "top" story.
Paul's story about Derek is special, too!

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