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The Wedding

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My youngest daughter, Sydney, got married on October 28, 2023. Since that day I have been contemplating what I would say about her wedding in a blog.

 

There was an unexpected, for me, difficult part of the day. It was difficult to come to the realization that my baby (she’s the youngest of four) is no longer a baby. She was becoming a married woman with a husband and a family of her own. That thought struck me numerous times during the day and I struggled to hide my sadness from her.

 

The best part of the day was my joy in seeing that my daughter was so loved by a person, Jason, that I have come to love and admire. There is just something about knowing that your child is loved and cherished that fills your heart.

 

There is nothing like a wedding to bring together your closest family and friends. Several times during the evening, I found myself scanning the room and being overwhelmed with the feeling that everyone I love was in this room. Of course, there is also the feeling, as we all know, that the evening goes by too quickly and you feel that you have not spent enough time with anyone.

 

I can also mention that I drank several shots of alcohol that night much to my own surprise as well as my family and friends. I have not drunk shots in, at least twenty years. I was shocked that I was not inebriated at all. But that might be a blog topic for another day. . .

 

Congratulations to Sydney and Jason Weinberg!!

 

 

Comments

Fred Klein

Recently, I drank a lot and was surprised by my lack of inebriation...
Daniel Schwartz

Weddings are emotional. Always mixed feelings by the parents. You want to be happy for the new family, yet still hold on. That is the circle of life in all its glory. Just remember, all the amazing new memories that have yet to come.
Rick Raymond

Ah, it's these family and holiday events that remind me of the inmate goodness of being when love prevails.
Tessa Marquis

When I got married I saved everyone money, time, and airplane travel by simply sending out a notice that said "If you blinked, you missed it" and "No gifts please". I knew that the reluctant bride (moi) couldn't handle the pressure of two incompatible families in one venue. I congratulate you on having a good wedding, without unsheathed knives, food disputes, cultural clashes, and reluctant brides! May all be happy, healthy, and not inebriated. Peace and Love are all that matter.
Victoria Drogin

Congratulations and Mazel Tov!!! Allie got married in August - also to a wonderful young man whom we love beyond and was instant family. I recognize some of these feelings so well. Absolutely amazing, love filled, joyous wedding with beloved family, old and new. Much more sweet than bittersweet but it’s hard to let your little chicks out of the nest..Paul keeps telling me careful, don’t trip over the umbilical cord. Lol….
Nancy Schess

It was such a beautiful and warm day. So much love around Sydney and Jason -- and around you you and Phil. I have to admit that we had a shot together -- I have no idea when I did that last if ever!

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