And Then They Fly

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What a wonderful last couple of weeks I have had.  Since early December, my house has been in various stages of full.

 

Early in the month, my daughter and grandpuppy came home, followed shortly thereafter by her significant other followed shortly after by my son and his significant other.  We had countless meals around my table in combinations of 3 through 6 of us.  We played games, drank some wine, went to Broadway and experienced other fun around NYC.

 

Through the whole time, I kept saying that I was in my happy place. 

 

And then, yesterday the last of the children went back to their lives and I struggled with that melancholy in a particularly potent way.  I always have a moment when the kids have been home and leave.  This moment for some reason was stronger.

 

As I thought about it all day, I came to terms with the fact that we had worked hard to teach our our children to fly and lo and behold they are flying.  Not so far that they don’t enjoy and even look for the opportunities for us to be together.  But far enough that they have full active lives to which they return.  And that thought takes me right back to my happy place.

 

Happy new year everyone! Wishing you all some time in your own happy place and hoping one of those is around a Gotham table in 2023!

Comments

Victoria Drogin

Yes. I get this. We had all 4 of the kids and their partners together twice - for a wonderful holiday dinner out (table for 10!!)and then “Christmas Eve Eve” on the 23rd so they could see other family members over the holiday too. And wonderful visits and coffee around the breakfast table etc… loved it beyond and miss them beyond…. And so proud and happy for all of them. XOXO happy New Year!!!
Daniel Schwartz

I am especially feeling this now as we are much further away from what little family I have left. So when someone visits here, we try to have as much fun as possible.
Rona Gura

I found it a bit melancholy when they left. I knew it was the right thing but sad to see them go.
Rick Raymond

We had our son and daughter here with their significant other- in the house. Many great cooks and many great dinners. There was a moment my wife and I were feeling like we wanted the house, and now they are gone back to their own enriching lives. Normalcy returns. The rush of the good times together subsided. The stillness is deafening.

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