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Those Important First Friendships

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I recently read a very interesting New York Times article. The premise of the article was how important those friends we make at our first jobs are to us both personally and professionally. The article went on to examine how the current generation of professionals are losing this benefit, due to the onslaught of virtual workplaces.

  

As I read the article I was quickly brought back to the camaraderie of the young associates at my first job out of law school. We worked late into the night together. Ordered in dinner together. Shopped in fashion catalogues together late in the evening while still in the office (yes, this was before internet shopping). And, of course, we socialized together, specifically gathering on Thursday nights at local bars.

 

 Most importantly, however, we supported one another. When one of us needed help, another was there. When one of just couldn’t figure something out, we were all there to help make it work.

 

 

 And while some of us are no longer in touch there are a few, one of who may be reading this blog, who have become lifelong friends. The sort of friends who you can call with any problem or emergency and know they will be there.

 

 

What was your experience with colleagues at your first professional job?

Comments

Fred Klein

There were about 30 of us and to this day I have regular communication with one of them.
Shelley Simpson

My first job out of law school was a round hole for this square peg and I couldn't leave fast enough. I have however, "collected" my closest friends through my work in politics. Four of them were my first customers when I started my business 15 years ago - they bought as a favor and never left. Another I met on another job when I worked in FL when we both worked for the same Congressman. We have all supported each other over the years and while we don't speak often and live far apart, we manage to enjoy a special bond. Bonds forged in a crucible are indestructible.
Cynthia Somma

In my first professional job, I would find my BFF. We have been in each other's weddings and been thru the good and the bad and I consider myself very fortunate. I have also remained close to my boss from so long ago. He has been a lifelong mentor.
Daniel Schwartz

I do still have some friends from my first job out of collage. Most have moved out of state, including myself. But we Facebook and text now and then.
Nancy Schess

Yes, my friend, I remember those days well. And my biggest challenge was that I never returned any of the items I purchased! They always sat in a big pile in my office. I have to say I cherish those days. We worked hard and played hard and learned from each other in life's most important ways. I wouldn't change a thing.

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