Submitted by CarlyMeyer on

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Concrete Thinkers vs. Abstract Thinkers

Have you ever met someone that takes everything literally? Chances are, they are probably more of a concrete thinker. Concrete thinking focuses on what is physically around you. Concrete thinkers see a physical object and just think of what's in front of them. They may see their surroundings but not see beyond themselves. Concrete doesn't bend. It stays put. If you tell a concrete thinker to "break a leg" they might think about a leg snapping. Not kidding.

Abstract thinkers use analogies and metaphors to understand the world.  They can read body language and know the difference between verbal and non-verbal. They are critical thinkers, science-minded and logically based.

There are other types of thinkers, but are typically spin-offs of these fundamental types.

I'm an Abstract thinker and I married a Concrete thinker. It's a perfectly balanced ship. He's the ballist and I'm the sails. A diversified portfolio of human assets. He's the fixed income and I'm the equities. Communication can be interesting, but as long as we know we speak different languages we eventually find an understanding. It's typically concrete thought with creative abstract descriptors.

What kind of thinker are you?

Comments

Fred Klein

I knew we spoke the same language! Great blog!
Victoria Drogin

Great blog Carly! I’m abstract for sure - and Paul is concrete. He always says: if you dream it up I’ll get it done. :)
Also, great to think about for business teams or partnerships. Complementary skills sets can be very powerful.
Benjamin Geizhals

Flo is abstract and I am concrete. A good combination -- at least from the perspective of a concrete thinker.
Carly Bentley

100% agree. It helps to know what “language” a person speaks. Makes for much better communication and fewer Misunderstandings
Kelly Welles

Wonderful post Carly! Thank you!!! Definitely my husband is prose and I’m poetry.

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