It's About Love and Foregiveness

Post Date

Mon, 11/11/2019 - 00:00

Comments

Fred Klein

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It is a case by case basis. Judge what he does and not what he says.

Daniel Schwartz

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Always complicated. Forgive and forget if possible. But it does take time.

Paul Napolitano

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I agree with Fred. Case by case basis. However, fool me once and you are a fool, fool me twice and I am a fool.

Lourdes Villanueva Hartrick

When trust has been broken it takes time to rebuild. I would agree his actions would speak volumes in rebuilding the trust that once existed. Forgiving I would say would be the easier thing to do since we all make mistakes. I would say that praying together as a couple if they are spiritual people would heal the wounds faster. This is all very painful and does require some time for healing. I hope they will be able to heal from this pain and communicating is key to getting back on track.

Marilyn Genoa

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There are so many issues raised by this--history, what occurred, etc. She is fortunate to have a good friend with whom she can discuss and reflect. It is a difficult position for you to be in and one that requires much, including neutrality.

Nancy Schess

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Wow, that's really tough. I think time will be the true test for them. When trust has been broken, it means digging deeper to forgive but for the health of the relationship, there needs to be some element of forgiving. Maybe she's not ready but time will help make her decisions for her. And I completely agree with Marilyn. She is luck to have you as a friend.

Liz Saldana

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It depends on the situation. I'm more likely to forgive (as harboring anger is not healthy); however trusting again is something else. I agree with Paul...Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.