Three different times today the same thing happened. Someone called or emailed to ask for a referral. Each time the “ask” started the same way. “I’m sure you don’t know anyone who does this but . . .” Each time I was able to respond with, “well actually I do” and follow up with contact information or a warm introduction between two contacts.

  The other evening, while at a networking function, I told a story about a recent court appearance. Inadvertently, and for the first time ever, I blurted out the word “f##k,” while on the record. The word would have been perfect in context under any other circumstances but, clearly, inappropriate in court.  

It lived a rather long life but its time passed. My old MacBook, which 4 years ago, became Marisa’s, required a new battery. It served father and daughter almost a decade. During our visit to the Genius Bar, we discerned that a new path made the most sense. We selected a MacBook Air. A year ago this time she visited to celebrate a milestone she reached.

Lately, for some reason, I've felt anxious and I'm not sure why. Sitting with these feelings is interesting...an overiding feeling like I have to do someting and I don't know what that is. Sort of like an inner turmoil. Have you every felt that?   It feels unusual to me because my normal state of consciousness is calm and centered.   I'm going through the motions of sorting through my thoughts, all the 47 things I need to do, meditating and being mindful.   Maybe I should start drinking heavily :-)

We have a friend who lost her husband in the last year.  She was a very good wife. She is a wonderful woman, mother and friend who has impressed me with her reaction to widowhood.

Initially, it was spontaneous. As we went around the table in typical Gotham form, people started talking about what Gotham means to them. Mostly, how Gotham has made a difference in their lives. The testimonials ranged from finding assistance in Gotham to help through business and personal problems, family health situations, to helping grandchildren find internships.

Concrete Thinkers vs. Abstract Thinkers Have you ever met someone that takes everything literally? Chances are, they are probably more of a concrete thinker. Concrete thinking focuses on what is physically around you. Concrete thinkers see a physical object and just think of what's in front of them. They may see their surroundings but not see beyond themselves. Concrete doesn't bend. It stays put. If you tell a concrete thinker to "break a leg" they might think about a leg snapping. Not kidding.

We have just discovered The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel. I know the show is in its third season but the binging in our house has just begun. We are classically behind the times. But it’s now time to catch up.