I think that’s a wise strategy.

Is this a trick question?

I’ve always been direct with you :)

It’s a trick direction :)

Clearly you are learning networking from the film, Network. “I’m mad as hell and I’m not going to take it anymore.” I’m with you, prefer straightforward communication.

You’re learning.

Try “I would, but I don’t want to“. Then watch their brains sizzle a bit.

Better their’s sizzle than mine!

my friendly suggestion is to "Chill Out". Not that i don't agree with you that whey can we talk in a straightforward way with each other. But there are more important things going on that you can be FED UP ABOUT!
Fred - thanks for always making us think.
have a great weekend all - Be Safe and Be Well

If you suggest it, own it. That's my commentary from the back seat lol

I swear I was just typing when Paul’s comment came up. Our kids first started saying that in high school. (well, my daughter Allie to be specific.) “Oh, I wish I could, but I don’t want to!” It was so hard not to laugh, even though I was pissed off at the same time. But no one could argue that it’s not honest! That’s become one of our family quotes, along with “you’re only as happy as your least happy child.” Another jam from Allie. Lol

My two cents......be honest, and say what you feel!

You’re the best gentle nudger! You give great suggestions without the “ you shoulda” I appreciate that!!

Saying what's on your mind is very liberating and healthy.

Or you can always answer with the very obnoxious, "Because."

I like the direct approach with an added "Please" in front of the direct request.

Getting a little anxious in KW?