A Family Heirloom

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Its been almost almost a year since the house that Flo grew up in was sold. It was sold to the caretaker who cared for Flo's mother during the last years of her struggle with Alzheimer's. They loved the house and selling it to them was one way to keep it in the family. We were in the neighborhood the other day and stopped by to see the house. They had made some changes -- took off the wall paper and painted, took up the carpeting to discover beautiful wooden floors and redid the basement. Much of the furniture was kept. Although re-arranged, there was a wonderful familiarity. One of Flo's mother's needlepoints was on the wall. A lamp table in the living room that had been covered with pictures of Flo's family was now similarly covered with the pictures of another family. The house was like a family heirloom piece of jewelry whose many precious gems had been preserved in a redesigned necklace. As we walked from the house, we turned to each other and smiled.

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Submitted by AdrianWalterGinzburg on Thu, 10/06/2016 - 04:12

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Adrian Walter Ginzburg

What a lovely way to turn what could have been a sad visit, into one of hope and continuity. As you know I have a personal interest in this story, and I'm so glad to have played even a small part.
Daniel Schwartz

So often the decision to sell a house that has major sentimental value to someone who will try to preserve it becomes a deciding factor to the seller. Realtors will always say, just let it go and not think what happens next. The house I grew up in and where my mom stayed until she was hospitalized and soon after passed, was a tough sale for us. The new owners ultimately tore it down and put up a modern McMansion that did not fit the neighborhood. Such is the case when the land is worth more than the house. I am so glad yours was preserved to a degree and the history of it remains.
Cayce Crown

This is so great, you let it go and now let yourself appreciate the changes. Very powerful.

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