A Heartwarming Tribute

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A friend’s dad passed away last week. I didn’t really know him -- but just how special this man was in life was literally brought to life at his funeral. At the risk of sounding morbid, this was the nicest funeral service I have ever attended.

It went on for close to 90 minutes with speeches starting from the smallest grandchildren up through the grieving wife. This is clearly a family of public speakers and their skill for communication made sure we knew that grandpa never missed a game, that he had an odd and ever-present sense of humor, that he had a secret friend that entertained the grandchildren wherever he went, and that several of his grandchildren referred to him as their “best friend”.

By the end, I felt that I knew my friend’s dad even though I am not sure we had ever met.

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Fred Klein

Eulogizing is a stressful, but cathartic and meaningful ritual.
Rona Gura

I've only eulogized my parents. As Fred said, for me, it was very cathartic.
Maurice Frumkin

As I've often heard said, "Always be there." Far too often we are someplace else in our heads when the people we care about the most are right there in front of us. Guilty as charged....

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Corey Bearak

Back in the day, family and friend eulogies were more the exception. Your friend's dad reminds me some of mom's dad. He probably had the greatest impact on much of how I live my life; especially the little things. Grandpa Sol deserved that kind of eulogy. I suspect that 90 minutes were the fastest 90.

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