It’s such a small thing, but so powerful and so noticeable when absent.

When someone says “thank you” it means that they appreciate something you have done. With two small words, they show gratitude for something large or small. It could be as simple as a cashier saying thank you when your transaction is complete. Or if someone gets up to give you their seat on a crowded subway, a thank you is certainly called for.

I remember a parent teacher conference when Jaclyn was in sixth grade. The teacher made a point of expressing to us her gratitude to Jaclyn. Apparently, before Jaclyn left the classroom every day, she stopped to say “thank you” to the teacher. We were never quite sure how that practice started, but her teacher’s appreciation was genuine.

However, I know I am hearing that phrase with decreasing frequency. I’m not exactly sure why. But it is enough of a difference to have noticed.

I, for one, am an advocate of generous use of the thank you. I hope you are too.