Submitted by Rona_Gura on

Second Chances

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Another Gotham member and I had a long discussion this week about a former colleague.  Several years ago, our former colleague had made a series of bad and, arguably, exceedingly unethical business decisions. As a result, she lost her job and paid a civil fine. To my knowledge, that was the extent of her “punishment.” I remember, at the time, being shocked at the intensity of the allegations levied against her.

 

 

Fast forward now five years. The former colleague is now in a different business and reaching out to former associates. She has returned to the field in which I knew her. In that field I had regarded her  as a highly skilled professional.

 

 

 

Now the issue becomes, second chances. At what point does someone deserve a second chance? And, if I was to refer a colleague or client to her do I disclose her past? In this Google driven world has your consideration of what you should disclose changed?

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Corey Bearak

I generally give two strikes.

There was a interesting mix of NYC "personalities" favoring 2nd chances.
Fred Klein

Second chance maybe, but with full disclosure

Submitted by RobertGiamboi on Sun, 03/26/2017 - 23:58

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Robert Giamboi

I agree with Fred. What I might suggest is having a private conversation with your former colleague and be upfront and honest with them about it...something like, "Listen, I'd like to refer business again but I need to hear from you what happened before I can do that. And have any new clients brought up the incident, and how have you handled it?"
Daniel Schwartz

Second chance for sure, but as others have mentioned, at least a brief discussion of what happened in the past.
Gideon Schein

I do believe in second chances. However, without knowing more details it is difficult to comment on whether she deserves a second chance. Some people will really never change and to refer to them is dangerous.

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