The Right Word

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I'm looking for a word - perhaps not yet invented or evolved - or perhaps the extension of the meaning or import of an existing word. Here's the background to my search. A friend has an appointment on a certain day and, having been advised of this important event, I ask to be informed of the outcome as expeditiously as possible. "Let me know. I'd like to hear from you." As soon as the words pass my lips, I realize the dilemma. I communicate with this person by talking or by texting. (Ever increasing in popularity, especially among a younger generation.) By saying "I'd like to hear from you" am I suggesting my preference for the spoken word? (Which, in this case, I am.) However, given our communication pattern, she might be more comfortable with a text -- and it might be more efficient. So, what's the verb for receiving a text? "Please text me" would do. However, that conveys a preference to receive a text -- which is not the case. Although I have my preference, I want to leave the option open and for the sender to do what's comfortable. Perhaps there's a word out there that works. If so, it doesn't come to mind. I should let her know that I'd like a report after the appointment -- whether by phone or text. A bit cumbersome. At least until we find the right word.

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Submitted by Liz_Saldana on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 21:08

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Liz Saldana

I just say "Let me know what happens." That way how they let me know is up to them. :)
Cayce Crown

Yes, I'm with Liz, I just say let me know as soon as convenient and let them choose the method.
Flo Feinberg

I'm with Liz and Cayce too!
I don't think you can coin a phrase without showing a preference. If you want to leave the option open for your friend to choose his/her method of communicating just stick with "I'd like to hear from you"!
Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar
Gideon Schein

Agree with all f the above, but also with pen that I would prefer to hear a voice as well.

Submitted by MarilynGenoa on Thu, 03/09/2017 - 01:15

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Marilyn Genoa

I usually just let the person know my thoughts are with then and to let me know how it turns out. In this day and age "hear" is almost generic. Your concern is what has meaning.

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