Can I Buy You a Drink?
I read an article last Sunday in The Times that started like this, “I met my spouse the old fashioned way, I read her profile online, no pics, exchanged a few emails and then met for a drink. No Tinder or OKCupid.”
Is online dating now considered old fashioned? What happened to blind dates and meeting in social settings such as bars and parties? As for personal ads, I would assume that those have been replaced by online dating.
I happened to meet my current husband, Philip, through my daughter Sydney and his son Ryan, who attended nursery school together. After Philip’s first wife died, I offered to watch my now stepson on Saturday mornings as I knew that Philip worked on Saturday mornings. Ryan and Sydney’s morning playdates at my house, over time, stretched out to lunches with the four of us and then afternoons spent together with our other children. Last Friday, Philip and I celebrated our tenth wedding anniversay.
How did you meet your significant other?

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The back story is that when she was a teen Shelly sat for a couple I knew from my political and community involvement; they had to give me her number several times because I misplaced it. Herb & Rhoda Dornfest lived across the street from Shelly and her parents (and sister) in Glen Oaks.
I took Shelly to The Bottom line that Saturday eve to see "Leader of The Pack" (which later ran on Broadway).
On Friday I wanted to cancel the blind date I had scheduled for Sunday but felt obligated; it was weird Sunday eve knowing I already was locked in with my soul mate and I went through the motions (hopefully not communicating it).
The following Friday (May 18) was the Annual Dinner of my Democratic Club -- the honoree was the then Governor's wife (and thus the mom of the current one). I was club president and since it was the "turn" of my dad and stepmom to attend as my guests at my table, mom bought her own ticket to the dinner so she can check out her future daughter-in-law.
The following weekend Shelly joined me for my then annual Memorial Day weekend jaunt to Grandma Evelyn's Southold home (by that weekend she was at the summer home she shared with Aunt Edie on the Sound). The last weekend Sunday that June (30) I proposed before I left for Softball on the front porch of my Glen Oaks apartment; I gave her a ring from my that was my late Grandma Jean (Interestingly when my mom told Shelly that my Grandma lived her last months at an apartment around the corner from where Shelly lived with her parents, Shelly realized she use to stop and talk to her on her walk home from the bus stop and that Grandma would talk me up to her; Grandma used to mention a girl to me; obviously Shelly. After softball the following Sunday (July 7) I ordered a ring at Fortunoff's.
We bought an apartment that we took possession of on New Year's Day 1985.
We married that March 24. Been together three decades and will be married that long next Spring.
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