Submitted by Rona_Gura on

Fears

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I am writing this blog early as my husband and I will be in Europe for the two weeks before it is posted. I am so excited about this trip as I have never been in Europe before.

Along with my excitement, however, is my growing sense of anxiety. As I’ve written before I have a fear of flying. And the thought if being on a plane for seven and a half hours fills me with dread. But I have never allowed my fear to stop me from travelling and enjoying time with my family.

In some respects, its easy for me to deal with this fear, I generally take a Valium and hope that I will sleep through the flight. I have tried to rationalize through the fear, i.e. I am familiar with all of the statistics as to how safe flying truly is. I have even spoken to Gothamite, Alan Schwartz who himself flies planes and he has also very patiently explained to me how safe flying is. But, I find that my only relief while flying is the Valium.

Having developed this fear, I have also a newfound respect for those who have phobias and have to deal with them every day. Most cannot sleep them away as I try to but must face them every day.

What are you afraid of?

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Tessa Marquis

The Dark: So I sleep with the hall light on.
Also, getting stabbed in the back in a restaurant, due to my past life as a mob boss. For this, I sit with my back to the wall.
I used to be afraid to fly but have cured that one. It turns out to be so boring that it is not frightening at all. I have mostly resolved the fear of speaking in public (discussed before in Fred Klein's recent blog) . I work on the other fears every day.
Fred Klein

I am afraid of being late. The anxiety drives me nuts.
Corey Bearak

Skiing. I fear breaking a leg and the relative immobility more than anything. I have a very close friend - some may know the friend -- who fears driving (as the driver) across bridges and prefers for example I take the Brooklyn Bridge rather than the Wmsburg.

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