Submitted by Rona_Gura on

Mother or Monster?

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I was an overweight child. Therefore, I found the story of Dara-Lynn Weiss and her seven year old daughter compelling.  Ms. Weiss put her seven year old overweight daughter on a strict diet  for health related reasons; the child had high blood pressure. Interestingly, the internet has exploded with blogs and articles condemning Ms. Weiss and her methods.


A majority  of the criticism against Ms. Weiss has been levied at her choice of magazine to tell her story, Vogue. The critics have opined that her move to put her story on the pages of Vogue seemed contradictory, since high fashion magazines are covered with rail-thin supermodels. Thus, if her story was truly about weight and health, Vogue was criticized as not the appropriate forum to deliver this message.


Even more than her choice of Vogue, Ms. Weiss has been criticized for her methods.  She admits to publically  embarrassing and humiliating her daughter when she made the wrong food choices. She also admits to depriving her daughter of dinner after the child had an eight hundred calorie feast at school celebrating French Heritage Day.


 

Ms. Weiss’ explanation for her extreme actions is that, as a parent, she has the right and obligation to monitor her child’s health and, therefore, food choices. She has analogized her child’s condition to that of a diabetic child and has suggested that the parent of a diabetic child would not have received the type of criticism she has in limiting her child’s food choices.


What do you think Gotham?  Are this mother’s actions too extreme?  Or, is she doing what she must to keep her daughter healthy?

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Submitted by NULL (not verified) on Sun, 02/17/2013 - 20:59

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Children and eating and not eating is a most tricky question. This is Fred
Mitch Tobol

The question is how did her daughter at the tender age of 7 get overweight to begin with?

Submitted by TheodoreLanzaro on Sun, 02/17/2013 - 23:32

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Theodore Lanzaro

I think she is right. She has the right to monitor her child's food intake to protect her health. What good parent doesn't watch and restrict what their children eat. Humiliating the child is wrong. What magazine published the story isn't worthy of discussion or debate, just nonsense.
Corey Bearak

Did not see the story but I oppose humiliation as a tool. Many good means exist. My son addressed his problem on his own and he is much unlike me in size. Educating, portion sizes, rewards (not relating to food) for positive results, activities and exercise all matter. Sounds like the mom could use a bistle outside assistance as well. Looking forward to seeing all the health and nutrition expects we enjoy access to in our tribe to weigh in.
Bill Waldorf

It's difficult to "know" what is the right thing to do in every situation. Probably the best you can do is the best you can do. Did her mother raise her with good eating habits for the first few years of her life? Was her other environmental catalysts appropriate? It's easy for us to criticize. Boy is it easy for us to criticize!

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