Time

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Time, possibly the most valuable thing we have in this life because it is so limited. As kids, we take it for granted. The days seem long. When is our next birthday? When is spring break, then summer, then the holidays until New Years? It seems to crawl. But, as we all know, time speeds up as we age. How can 24 hours go by so fast the older we get? It is astonishing. For many, by the time you realize it, it’s likely too late. We work hard most of our lives in order to eventually retire, with grand plans of travel, beaches, hanging with the family, doing whatever you can dream about when you are commuting to your job or reflecting before going to bed. So, what happens to that time? How does it escape us? What happens when you retire and realize you maybe didn’t save enough to travel. Or the family has their priorities as they grew and have less time for you. Or worse, your health is poor, and you can not do all those things you dreamt about. 

So, my thought for the day. Do it now. I know Rona and her husband Philip live by this moto as does Fred (as seen by his past blog earlier this year). I am very guilty of putting off what I should or COULD do today and just wait until tomorrow. Maybe my meager upbringing and my parents relentless push not to spend, with the need to save for the future, has kept me from often not going for it. I see my younger neighbors spending (in excess at times) but they are always active with boating, sports, the gym memberships and they entertain often. We seem so boring by comparison. But I wonder, will they be happier later in life with possibly less saved up, but more great memories of their youth? I think maybe my parents had it wrong then. Life is too short, and time is not on anyone’s side. So, I agree with Fred. Just go for it now. It is hard mindset for me, but I am trying each day to maximize that ever elusive moment in time.

What is your concept of time and where do you want to spend it the most?

 

Comments

Paul Napolitano

Great Blog Dan! Having a father, who worked so hard all his life, only to pass away at 64 made my decision along time ago. I’m 60, half retired, and I intend to fully retire in the next year or so. There is too much life to be had, family to be enjoyed and fun to be made. I want to cook my wife dinner every night, build bathrooms for my kids, and play a lot of pickle ball! They say that man plans and God laughs. I hope her sense of humor is good!
Shelley Simpson

Perhaps the worst lesson we were taught is that life is a zero sum game. "you can't have it all!, they say. You are right about time, Dan. It is a non-renewable resource. We can't go back and claim some that we would have used otherwise and it's a waste of time to spend even thinking about it. I believe there are ways to use time wisely and to enjoy it without sacrificing the quality of the time ahead. We can have it all ... not always at the same time. Great thought provoking blog!
Kelly Welles

Timeless topic for the finite resource with which we are all endowed...life! While one should not cast responsibility to the wind, the most powerful tool we have within this paradigm is choice. Carpe diem but make sure the cupboards aren't bare when you return. People don't plan to fail. They fail to plan.
Crysti Farra

Dan, you are wise beyond your years. The memories you have made with your kids will transcend time, so you have done it right my friend! Who is going to remember the comfy hotel bed they slept in when they have a memory of the stars over their head in the wild?

Stay true to yourself, your family and let the world's opinion of you go jump in a lake!

Submitted by RoyFenichel on Wed, 12/20/2023 - 15:35

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Roy Fenichel, Esq.

Thank you for the wisdom, Dan! I never used to understand - but I'm starting to now - the saying: "The days are long, but the years are short."
Your words remind me of my thoughts....

On Time

Joy is delivered when we are on life’s stage
Living from our own mind, from our own page
We write our destiny by finding reason in life’s rhyme
Because we can only live one line at a time

We choose how to arrange each given letter
Contours drawn by circumstances, for worse or for better
But we choose the order of our priority, our focus, our choice
The past has happened, the future awaits our present voice

In the present, we can be tense, or we can let our love flow
We are handed the letter, and what happens, we decide where to go
We control how we use our thoughts, our intellect, our sage
How to direct our passions, our allegiances, even our rage

Arrange and rearrange, there is no fixed pattern of right
But we each are entitled to bring out our own given sight
We decide what is important, of what we are and what we do
To withdraw within or to let our inner compass come through

We all put into context the chaos of every external person and thing
We have our say in what we contribute to most everything
Where will we put our gaze, what principles will we share?
When life challenges us with opportunities, will we dare?

Whirling through the universe, space relative to the moments we see
There is only the now, the here, the us, the choice to be
All that we can be, that we can bring to the situation at hand
That is all we can do, the parsing of time that we can understand

So grab it, seize the chance to make the most of the opportunity that is here
Keep your wits about you, appeal to your better mind, not your fear
Because at the end of your day, this will decide how your mission will go
And will determine the direction of your life, and how your inner purpose will flow
ODEY RAVIV

Dan you dug into Life's Big Question. Time flies but we have to stop and enjoy all that we can!

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