Who's Calling?

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In this era where it seems (and maybe it's reality) that we receive more bogus, phishing, sales and solicitation calls than calls from those we know, I long opted to answer, "Who's calling."  Where I recognize the number as legit I answer the call with "This is Corey" or if the caller ID makes clear I know the caller,  i often state hi or hello (name of caller) because the caller knows they are reaching me and recognize my voice.

I find it strange that the caller does not ID their company or "affiliation".  They just give a first name and ask if I am me and I respond, "Who's calling."  And I state please remove my number.  It has reached the point where I recognize the callers.  In many cases the caller ID states a stranger's name or falsely states a legitimate company name but nothing that relates to the caller's company; I respond that's not what the caller ID says.  

I do not believe in a response stating who I am, or a greeting such as "Hello" or "yes" when I receive these bogus calls.

Sometimes the calls come to my landline; other times my cell.

The caller or the recording says it will repurpose my debt - I respond 'no debt here'

And frankly it's none of their business if I (or anyone for that matter) have any debt, own a car, has any credit card, etc.

I find it interesting that those calls tend to occur at times when friends, family and colleagues are less likely to call.

And the calls tend to repeat; unlike with commercials, the repeat attempt achieves nothing.

And if you block the number, another one seems to be used.

How do you handle these annoyances?

 

 

 

 

Comments

Daniel Schwartz

My wife, like Fred will not answer the phone if she doesn't recognize the caller ID. I on the other hand, being in sales, my instinct is pick up everything and just deal with the consequence if an annoyance call. Sometime I even get onto a conversation with them, cruel as it may seem, to waste their time as I respond back in nonsensical ways. Two of my favorite come backs are "I like ice cream, do you?" and "when can I come over?". Usually the person hangs up. You can't really stop them so either have some fun or don't answer the phone.
Kelly Welles

I have developed an aversion to phone conversations, preferring in-person face-to-face communication while using the phone to answer only the most basic calls, e.g., a doctor's appointment confirmation or a client , friend or family member. On occasion, I do indulge in marathon phone calls with long distance relationships. Mostly, I Zoom. Rarely use FaceTime. Consider FaceTime an invasion of privacy as I have known it to show up ANYWHERE. TMI. But there you have it.

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