Submitted by Rona_Gura on

Setting Boundaries

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I had a telephone consultation with a prospective client last week. As I was working from home, I conducted the consultation on my cell phone.

 

As we were hanging up, I said my usual send-off, “If you have any further questions, feel free to contact me.” At 8:00 am the next morning my cell phone rang from a number that was not in my contacts. First, I generally do not answer phone numbers I do not know. Second, and much more essentially, I generally am not ready to conduct business at 8:00 am, unless it’s a Gotham meeting, of course.  I let it go to voicemail.

 

The voicemail revealed that it was the prospective client who had a “few more general questions.”   I pondered when and how to call him back and most importantly, how to let him know that, for me, 8:00 am phone calls for general questions are not appreciated.

 

I am finding this to be an issue at an increasing rate. More clients are requesting my cell phone number and, using it at their convenience, with no regard as to whether 7:30 pm, when I want to be home with my family, is a convenient time for me. As such, I am wondering more and more about how to set boundaries on my time with my clients.

 

With respect to the prospective client, I called him back later in the day from my office. I made sure that, during our telephone conversation, to make a self-deprecating comment about me just not being a morning person and working much more efficiently in my office. I thought that would get the message across, without embarrassing him, that he needs to contact me in the office during office hours for non-emergency issues.

 

This is becoming more and more of an issue. How do you set boundaries with clients?

 

 

Comments

Corey Bearak

I make clear the cell rings silent except when in the office when it will ring via bluetooth to my desk phone set. I suggest texting and email and the voice message on the cell suggests that as well as to call the "landline."
Daniel Schwartz

That is a tough one and with my line of work, dealing with many schools, I am a bit more forgiving as these operations personel work extended hours. I just don't answer back if it's not a real emergency. If it becomes a habit, i will say something like I don't start the day until 9 am when I get into the office. That usually is enough.
Fred Klein

This is a tough one and there is no clear answer...
Nancy Schess

Boundaries, absolutely. Take them head on! For a long period of time, I carried two cell phones for exactly that reason but that just became too cumbersome.

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