The other day, someone was explaining to me the importance of good listening and said – “there is a reason that we have two ears and one mouth.” That resonated with me. The art of good listening comes naturally to some but it can also be an acquired skill. When you are meeting a new client for the first time, if you use your one mouth more th …
This time of year makes me happy. The excitement between Thanksgiving and New Year’s is special. The city sparks a different energy and focus. The lights, decorations, not to mention the sales. Black Friday is around the corner. And, of course, the tree at Rockefeller Center. This year, something particularly special is coming our way …
Thanks, son. Around 6:30 on Monday evening, my texts light up with that all important reminder. I wonder all the time why I can’t be more like Rona. I know her blog writing routine is a weekend endeavor on a quiet morning with a cup of coffee. For me, I like to wait until the end of the day to decide what topic has grabbed me. Of course, som …
Goes a long way for everyone around. I watched a scene unfold the other day on the other side of a crowded LIRR train. A woman joined the crowd who was clearly pregnant and the train was crowded. I will admit that I usually jump up for a pregnant woman on a train, plane or in an automobile. I remember what it was like to stand for two all the …
On my work from home days, I try very hard to tell myself to stand up, take a walk, get outside – even for just a few minutes. Yet these days, I am failing. Just too busy, which is not a complaint but sometimes an interference. Any tips out there Gotham friends? How do you make sure that you take a healthful break during the day?
How many of you still pay your child’s cell phone bill? I know this is a regular conversation amongst my friends. Mind you, we are not talking about teenagers around this table but rather grown adults. This past weekend, out of the blue, my son called to say he needed our mobile account password because he was switching phone carriers and taki …
Well, he is pretty darned cute. You may all remember (or not) about two years ago we welcomed Hudson, my first grand puppy, to the family. Yes, I was and continue to be a little obsessed. Many of my friends are at the grandchildren stage. We are not. Instead, we have grandpuppies. And so with that, welcome Walter! Walter became a member …
I was wondering today about everyone’s social media platform of choice. I was also wondering whether that choice aligns generationally. For me, I am a Facebook and LinkedIn user, each for its own purpose. I haven’t been hooked in Instagram, YouTube, TikTok or any of the others. My kids say that shows my age. What is your social media platfo …
I was reminded the other day how often my family just breaks into song. We always have, and most often really ridiculous silly songs sometimes even made up – or, in the alternative a good old fashioned show tune. I grew up on show tunes. We were a big musical family (we still are). I woke up every Saturday morning to my dad playing his favorite …
We have a new tradition – Rosh Hashanah in Lynchburg. Why, you ask? Because when the children can’t come to you, you go to the children – in time to make lots of brisket. When my son shared on the day before our travels that he had not even scoped out a brisket to buy yet, I was nervous. Here at home, I have my brisket in the freezer at leas …
Did you ever notice the energy in the room when a bunch of Gothamites come together? I have been taken recently by how comfortable and open our connections are when we are in the same room. You can’t pass any group conversation without hearing someone say – “You might want to meet . . . “ This observation was loud and clear to me last week at …
Well, sort of. Growing up, the day after Labor Day always meant the end of summer and signaled a sharp turn towards fall. Most years, truth be told, I’ve been ready. Don’t get me wrong. I am a huge fan of summer but I also very much look forward to all of the changes in season. This year, however, I am not ready and calling a “do-over”. …
Here is my question for our Gotham family today. My grandmother lived until just past her100th birthday. Pretty amazing. My mom always believed that once you pass a certain age, the medical profession just stops trying as hard. [Feel free to ask me which age fit my mom’s theory.] She was always concerned that something fixable would be mis …
Tomorrow morning my daughter starts school. OK, it’s a PhD program so she’s had a first day of school for more years than I will count. But it still feels fresh. As she was brimming with excitement tonight talking about the start of the program, it took me back to all of those first day of schools for her. Remember the excitement of new scho …
We are all in the people business in one form or another. We all service human beings. Those human beings might represent a business, but they are nonetheless humans. As service professionals, our job is to make those human beings feel important and appreciated. We could accomplish that goal in any number of different ways. So, let’s take a …
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