I have been taking the subway to work for 50 years and have had many experiences, both good and bad, in my travels. 

However, last week I had a poignant, unique under ground experience as I entered a crowded car on the way into work.  As I entered a younger man gestured to me and offered to give me his seat. 

Despite the fact that it was unexpected and unsolicited, I did not hesitate or waiver.  I surprised myself by accepting the seat. 

Afterwards as I mulled the shocking experience over I pondered why he offered it up.  Do I look old?  Do I look tired?  Did I look like I was in need?  Maybe I was just having a bad day.  However, this week the novel experience repeated itself as a young woman made the gesture.

I discussed it with Joanne and she advised that I pull back my shoulders and stand up straight.

P.S. I did not accept the woman's seat.  Maybe that's progress...