I try not to live in or dwell on the past.  I seek to be in the moment and make my memories. 

Memories like my recent trip to Cuba where everything was old, but new to me.  A unique entry into the Twilight Zone.  You never get a second chance to make or have a positive first impression and realizing that I wallowed in the moment.  

The Lesson learned is to try to be more adventurous and risk anxiety and insecurity which are conditions which plague me. 

Same old same old is just that.