Failure is something which we all inevitably experience, one time or another, in our lifetime.
That said, I feel that failure gets a bad rap. The common impression is that failure should be avoided and covered up at all costs.
To the contrary, it is the fear of failure that is the negative. Thus, playing it safe is the common approach.
However, as one who has failed mightily (eg, the Bar exam) I feel that such failure can be a seminal moment in one's life.
The feeling of shame and disappointment pervaded my every waking moment. I could not live with that self who did not do what had to be done to pass.
The lessons learned have DRIVEN (I have been accused of being driven) me through out the rest of my life.
Rather than fear failure, I suggest that you embrace it.
At the very least, it builds character.
Posted By : hydrajet